2014-12-26 17:02:04老鼠人
It's OK to be not OK today...
關於圖片：設計科學生祉林的作品。
面對艱難
我們都太容易去下「若A則B」的判斷
其實，很多時候都是結果論
先入為主的往回推是容易偏離事實真相的
旁觀者會誤判
身為當局者，自己有辦法當下立判嗎？
當你在慶幸不若某某如何的時候
說不定，正走在某某經過的老路上而不自知
當你懷疑是不是正在重蹈某某覆轍的時候
也說不定，根本只是你在杞人憂天
結果論
所以？
你跳出生活，企圖客觀分析生活
有意義嗎？
思考對方愛不愛你，或者，有沒有像過去那樣愛你
有意義嗎？
遇到什麼就是什麼，時間會將一切慢慢揭曉……
這不屁話嗎？
當然！就跟你腦中糾結的煩惱一樣
可以糾結，卻無需糾結
記得，想像和真相是有差距的
多想不如少想，少想不如不想
真的能想著想著就想開的人，少之又少
不是你這樣，所以他變了
也不是你沒有那樣，所以他變了
他變了，只是因為他做了一個選擇
那是一個看似你可以做些什麼去影響
卻其實什麼也不能影響的選擇
無奈的是，這一個人的選擇所影響的卻不只是一個人而已
人與人之間就是很難簡單
也許事情就是如此這般演變下去了
這當下還擁有的，就別多想
等真的失去了，再來苦惱也不遲
I Believe -- Christina Perri
I believe if I knew where I was going I'd lose my way
I believe that the words that he told you are not your grave
I know that we are not the weight of all our memories
I believe in the things that I am afraid to say
Hold on
Hold on
I believe in the lost possibilities you can't see
And I believe that the darkness
Reminds us where light can be
I know that your heart is still beating, beating, darling
I believe that you fell so you would land next to me
'Cause I have been where you are before
And I have felt the pain of losing who you are
And I have died so many times
But I am still alive
I believe that tomorrow is stronger than yesterday
And I believe that your head is the only thing in your way
I wish that you could see your scars turn into beauty
I believe that today it's okay to be not okay
Hold on
Hold on
'Cause I have been where you are before
And I have felt the pain of losing who you are
And I have died so many times
But I am still alive
This is not the end of me
This is the beginning
I believe if I knew where I was going I'd lose my way
I believe that the words that he told you are not your grave
I know that we are not the weight of all our memories
I believe in the things that I am afraid to say
Hold on
Hold on
I believe in the lost possibilities you can't see
And I believe that the darkness
Reminds us where light can be
I know that your heart is still beating, beating, darling
I believe that you fell so you would land next to me
'Cause I have been where you are before
And I have felt the pain of losing who you are
And I have died so many times
But I am still alive
I believe that tomorrow is stronger than yesterday
And I believe that your head is the only thing in your way
I wish that you could see your scars turn into beauty
I believe that today it's okay to be not okay
Hold on
Hold on
'Cause I have been where you are before
And I have felt the pain of losing who you are
And I have died so many times
But I am still alive
This is not the end of me
This is the beginning
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