2012-01-17 18:43:17老鼠人

沒辦法對男人言語柔軟


以前就很喜歡這首歌,但看了Youtube才知道它MV長這樣,真不喜歡Sheryl Crow在MV中的俗豔裝扮,我喜歡穿著T-恤、牛仔褲和皮靴的她,看起來簡單俐落、充滿個性美。MV中瀕臨絕種的保育類動物被做成標本展示,而失去自由的女人在玻璃展示間裡齜牙裂嘴…

這幾天跟妹妹閒聊,發現姊妹倆對「言語柔軟」有很大障礙,對男人不管感情到什麼程度,真沒辦法說出太柔軟的話。因為前男友最後封我刺蝟稱號,甚至下意識想去故意挑戰別人的忍受極限,以換取這樣都可以應該就沒後患的安全感,而這不就證明自己始終有依賴別人的嫌疑嗎?這樣還能跟誰好好培養感情?無法自己安然存在的個體,註定要繼續從失望中學習到自我滿足的功課。

If It Makes You Happy – Sheryl Crow
I've been long, a long way from here
Put on a poncho, played for mosquitos,
And drank til I was thirsty again
We went searching through thrift store jungles
Found Geronimo's rifle, Marilyn's shampoo
And Benny Goodman's corset and pen

Well, o.k. I made this up
I promised you I'd never give up

If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad

You get down, real low down
You listen to Coltrane, derail your own train
Well who hasn't been there before?
I come ’round, around the hard way
Bring you comics in bed, scrape the mold off the bread
And serve you French toast again

Well, o.k. I still get stoned
I'm not the kind of girl you'd take home

If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad

If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad

We've been far, far away from here
Put on a poncho, played for mosquitos
And everywhere in between

Well, o.k. we get along
So what if right now everything's wrong?

If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad

If it makes you happy
It can't be that bad
If it makes you happy
Then why the hell are you so sad