Get dirty and live.
是最近拿來不斷砥礪自己的話語
活著就是不斷行動和經歷
既然有過程，就不可能撇清所有責任
不可能避免掉所有麻煩和罵名
不做不錯，其實錯很大
不愛不傷，只是人生乏味啊

在感情上受到了傷害
就算主客觀的分析下，都是個受害者沒錯
但情傷過後，日子要怎麼過卻已經和所謂加害人關係不大
沉溺在受害者的哀怨心情而無視日升日落的真實世界
那是自己的選擇，必須由自己負起百分之一百的責任
心情、心境的轉變都需要靠自己
別人頂多能扮演引導者的角色罷了
還想愛就勇敢地去愛吧

怕東怕西、綁手綁腳
因而什麼都不敢做、不去嘗試
那就跟死去無異了
活著，難免犯點大小錯、得到好或壞名聲
過去不斷過去，而未來不斷一直來
因為過去的傷痛、失敗或曾經所期望的失落了而卻步
那還真傻啊
因為過去的輝煌、成就或可預見的收穫就停下了腳步
也一樣傻啊

哪有什麼一定如此的事，人生應該且戰且走、看著辦
好比命盤上可見的都是定數
即使可以精確預測人可能遭逢的大小事
但人屆時的實際反應卻是一個一個變數
本性難改卻可琢磨
沒什麼不可能，不過是需要點時間
當你學會和自己的個性和解並且長出智慧
該發生的事雖然一樣會發生，但對你的影響卻不同了
人生的走向自然也不會是原先以為的那樣

世事無常
把握當下吧
人真能做的就這個了
Get dirty and live.
管它能不能全身而退
想做的，就去做吧
凡事都想撇清的，是活死人
以為站遠遠的就什麼責任都沒，也一樣沒活著

介紹一首我喜歡的歌  Hands Clean by Alanis Morissette
余光音樂雜誌 英樂教室－聽音樂、學英文
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2008年Alanis Morissette重新詮釋同一首歌，人也中年發福了
在我心目中她永遠是超級棒的女神



Hands Clean
If it weren't for your maturity none of this would have happened
If you weren't so wise beyond your years I would've been able to control myself
If it weren't for my attention you wouldn't have been successful and
If it weren't for me you would never have amounted to very much

Ooh this could be messy
But you don't seem to mind
Ooh don't go telling everybody
And overlook this supposed crime

We'll fast forward to a few years later
And no one knows except the both of us
And I have honored your request for silence
And you've washed your hands clean of this

You're essentially an employee and I like you having to depend on me
You're kind of my protégé and one day you'll say you learned all you know from me
I know you depend on me like a young thing would to a guardian
I know you sexualize me like a young thing would and I think I like it

Ooh this could get messy
But you don't seem to mind
Ooh don't go telling everybody
And overlook this supposed crime

We'll fast forward to a few years later
And no one knows except the both of us
And I have honored your request for silence
And you've washed your hands clean of this

what part of our history's reinvented and under rug swept?
what part of your memory is selective and tends to forget?
what with this distance it seems so obvious?

Just make sure you don't tell on me especially to members of your family
We best keep this to ourselves and not tell any members of our inner posse
I wish I could tell the world cuz you're such a pretty thing when you're done up properly
I might want to marry you one day if you watch that weight and keep your firm body

Ooh this could be messy and
Ooh I don't seem to mind
Ooh don't go telling everybody
And overlook this supposed crime