The parents never know or never pretend to realize one thing: their children are the same as the other kids at school. They need to learn how to cooerate with the other students, need to obey the school rules , and need to sacrifice some personal indiosyncrasies. More ridiculously, they think their "beloved" children should get a very obvious change if they enter a so called "talented and gifted class", usually , they expect their children could suddenly become very well behaved and should get good grades at most of the time. What is worse, on the one hand, the parents hope that they will get all new lovely children from school, but on the other hand, they usually hint you not to punish their babies too much and even make up so many excuses for their children. It is such a stupid paradox, right?