仕途
最近有一位好兄弟(為什麼我們會用「兄弟」來指稱一人呢?)仕途失意,令我更加相信,機遇比實力更為重要,而機遇往往繫於人際/人事關係。世界本來就沒有公平這回事,有的是不公平,而大家可以做的,是盡量把不公平消除,可是在消除的過程中,常常弄巧反拙,製造更多的不公。法律的精神旨在消除社會的不公,但有財有勢的人肯定可以把更多的不公加諸他人,想想上載第一張淫照者鍾先生的遭遇,再和風暴主角獲國家元首級的保護相比,不公的情況令人無不扼腕。「法律面前,人人平等」,我相信法律本來是平等的,如果不加人為因素的話,但沒人立法執法或依法裁決,又是絕無可能的事。有人的地方,就一定沒有公平,歧視是正常的行為,周融慷慨疾呼一件正常的事,有如七情上面地宣稱「人人要大便」一樣詼諧,而滑稽程度則可與用英文唱粵曲媲美。
好兄弟,我沒法消除你遇到的不公,但希望我能幫你忘記,即使是一時三刻,也好。
Him Yea,
Read ur entry today, and thinking sth about myself, and want to share with you what i think.
With luck in this world, abosulute fairness is impossible, even there is no luck, becoz game rules are always biased to some group of people, Fair is not achievable, education can minimize that... but not elimiate..
But does it matter? i think luck/fairness dont matter. To me, the most important thing in my life is if we are happy and feel the fullfillment of our life by doing sth we think meaningful. In order to acheive this, there is nth about fairness. Whether we are happy or not, are all depend on ourselve, depend on what we think, thats pure subjective.
I think thats the way god to be "fair"to us. The world itself, the external environment, is far from fair, but life is about pursuit happiness in our own way, and it can be purely subjective regardless of the external world.
What i want to say is.... luck/fariness doesnt matter, even bad luck always on our side..... thats all about how we face it, and finding our own way to make our life fruitful and happy.
Wish you have good time in following mths in the training school!!!
Kwong Yea
謙爺:
人生不如意事,十常八九,但願我倆情誼永不變....
好兄弟,祝你仕途順風................以你為榮
dannis︰
兄弟嘅野,盡在不言中~~
廣爺︰
我同意你的看法。人可以尋找快樂和意義,而不用太在意大環境。找對了人生方向,心自然安定,環境怎變都不是問題吧~~很欣賞你堅毅的一面,這是我稍為欠缺的。