This is perhaps what Ellen page has mentioned about lying by omission, probably baddies everything else, the reason for her coming out.

Most prople are lonely, especially young people who haven't build a support network around them. I feel lonely at times and I always imagined perhaps it's because I'm just shy, or that I don't like people over, or that I don't go out much, or that work took up most of my time...but they are excuses aren't they? Why is the real reason I prefer to stay in?

Everything requires time to establish, if you don't invest time in friends, in caring how they're doing, friends won't be there when you need them. If you don't invest in yourself and go out, you won't find a person or a fling. 

So change. Change is the theme of 2014. What's clearly not working must be countered by action of resolution. Change, embrace it, self, embrace it.

I am who I am, no one can be me, right? 

Wish my pimples would've gone away though. Damn it.