那些不再相約的朋友
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人生的旅途仿如坐旋轉木馬，不斷地相遇和分離。在每段相偶中，有時會帶給我們歡愉的鼓勵，有時是以淚和傷痛給予的警介，使我們要更加好好向前行。對於美好的事情，即使怎樣捨不得，也留不住；對於傷痛的離別，怎樣不想面對，也要面對。
在旅途的轉角處，相信是充滿著意想不到，一個親切的慰問，一個偶然的眼神接觸，一個簡單的祝福，牽引起那直接心靈交流，彷彿為我們疲累的心靈灑下溫暖的陽光，折射出代表的希望彩虹，溶化了冰封已久的心靈。
雖然無數的偶遇，大部份是短暫而且不能有結果，甚至略帶怨恨或遺憾的離去。或者我們已忘記了何時第一次相遇；也不知道為何要別離。但是，我們不要因為這傷痛而逃避人與人之間的相偶。
我相信：「相識非偶然......」
每個在我們人生命中相遇和離去的人，都有緣因。
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那些不再相約的朋友，常常，我會祝福和感謝我們之的相遇。相信你們也和我一樣，努力地向前行，偶爾跌倒、偶爾傷痛，但我們會在心中不斷地為自己打氣，不會丟掉「希望和信任」之心。........^^
Wrote on 04-07-2007.... 得得地
loretta
Hello,
I got below recently from Facebook and l like to share with you, please comment.
reason, season or lifetime?
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
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你好，我們認識的嗎﹖你是什麼找到我這篇文章﹖
人與人之間的偶合是很其妙莫測，雖然可以強行把它分類為「reason, season or lifetime」，但是，我們不會因此而可以挽留一些已失去相偶，或者因為「重視」而使美好的得到延續。
緣來緣去不由人，以平常心看待每次的相偶和別去，珍惜每次偶遇的機會。
夏琳
得得地:
完成夢想真的是一件很美好的事
你有一段美好的旅程,我真是為你開心呢!
很棒的分享喔.
欣蓓
醉夢
朋友相交是用心代之
維繫在乎珍惜
^ ^ 我擁有很多維繫十年以上的朋友
嗯! 很開心, 都很幸福
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同意,交朋友是用"心"...^^
CoCo~
a soft touch writing~ comfy n clean... my feelings after read it. thx 4 yr good passage again.
well, it`s fate to meet news fds. of coz, we only hv limited time in our life. so should care n treasure everyone drop/dropping/dropped by.
if u enjoy time being w/ them, then it`s worth la~ happiness can`t be measured, right?
all we doing hard everyday is to keep n make ourselves or others happy...
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多謝到訪.
我思考這文章時, 大約就是你所形容的心情...^^
Connie
在這個陌生又冷酷的世界,能得到什麼??
不是利益就是勾心鬥角,如何能遇到真心的朋友呢?
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我想: 應該問自己想在這世界得到什麼??
也許: 信任是建立朋友(甚至親蜜關係)的必先條件
然而: 何時可以信? 何時要冒險? 就全靠個人運氣和經驗......(這就是緣份/命運嗎?)
candy
有一種令人舒服的感覺，讓我也開始回為了起來。
謝謝你讓我有種幸福的感覺，因為我也為我的那些朋友祝福，我相信我也是被受祝福的一位，所以我們都很幸福！
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以祝福來而對過去，
用信任來迎接現在。
我也是賞試中......
Taki
我曾在報台寫過一句話:
當朋友
也需要有當朋友的緣分~~
任何感情都是不能勉強的
包括友誼吧!!
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同意:
"任何感情都是不能勉強的包括友誼吧!!"
所以寄予祝福感謝大家在相遇時的投入....^^
藍秋癸
人生的相遇，應該是有緣分的，離開也是如此，所謂「緣起緣滅」，分分合合，視為常態；話說天下大勢，分久必合，合久必分，親情、友情、長官部屬的關係也是如此；「地球是圓的」，何處不相逢；送君千里，終須一別。夫妻之間，再怎麼樣鶼鰈情深，也有生離死別的時候，不是嗎？
冇，
：)好喜歡這篇文章!
可以轉貼在我新聞台嗎?
kevin
那些不再聯絡的朋友，卻還是朋友，因為一直在心中存在。在街上再次偶遇卻更能有一份單純的快樂。我喜歡這樣的感覺。
唔係好得
很好的文章. 只有有返咁上下經歷才會寫到.
所有的相遇聚會便會一點一滴的成為每個人的人生了.
羅莎
相識並不盡然相知
雖非偶然
但緣分一定
miss vivian D
It`s fate that out us together and it`s fate that leaves us apart. Take it easy! Enjoy what you have. We all have different experiences as time goes. C`est la vie!
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thx.
"All Things Happen For A Reason"
"活在當下 活好每一天"
小美
不知是不是因為香港人,
人情特別涼薄, 無物人情味.
除左相識好耐既朋友之外,
唔容易交新朋友
(雖然都會有, 但少)
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很認同
可能是人與人的相遇實在太多,
多到有點兒受不了,
習慣了不去珍惜吧!
miss vivian D
everyone comes into our life for a reason. who knows when our paths might cross again at some points in our life?
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謝謝到訪.
我想:當然會再次相遇的時候,
不過當大家再次相遇時,
時間,地點,心境已經不同.
每天都是獨一無二,
心境每刻都是獨一無二.
Hello,
I got below recently from Facebook and l like to share with you, please comment.
reason, season or lifetime?
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
人與人之間的偶合是很其妙莫測，雖然可以強行把它分類為「reason, season or lifetime」，但是，我們不會因此而可以挽留一些已失去相偶，或者因為「重視」而使美好的得到延續。
緣來緣去不由人，以平常心看待每次的相偶和別去，珍惜每次偶遇的機會。 2008-01-14 22:19:43