The soap opera of net life!
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The soap opera of net life!
When
two people met via net then were so closer can share everything in
their real life and inside their heart, how can it become such soap
opera? When one sister called me for another sister false at the time I
never took side. Till I had deeply talked with her and met their whole
family and I know the fact. Good people do not have to be treated so
unfairly. I here solely stated just the fact. How did whole thing start
perhaps only people who in it will know? First, we all have to know net
conversation did not fairly diagnosed anyone mental status no matter
what professional background they are. Even now a doctor would only use
net consulting their patient while they have their profile in hands, so
that do not comply for any reality after all. I have left kimo this
spring of 2004 after my real life had taken me so much work, but I am
glad many of my net friends still keep in touch with me. Second, sharing
information with others sometimes this is also a very private matter.
We surely only trust people we believe we know the real life
information, so I believe that the internet is a way but not the only
way to meet other people. It would take your own judgment to know which
one is real or not. Sometimes it is too soon to believe in people that
is how we get hurt. Going around to tell other people’s business is like
spreading gossip is not a very loyal or sincere friend. A true friend
will not hurt his or her friend by given out the lie. Especially about
something that is not true such as sleeping around between men or having
affair with others. As me I don’t believe for a married woman jumping
into bed with other man is that easy. Third, love and hatred, somehow we
still live in human world and we also fight for our selfishness and
jealousy, perhaps sometimes that drawing us apart. We can forgive
someone had done bad thing to us, but we can’t forget what they had done
to us. Since 1996 I entered the net world via bbs and then I came back
to net world in 2002, I also experienced the net-relationship. Maybe I
decided to let it go, I also always give advise to other new net users
what they should follow and I am glad that they are all doing fine. We
would get hurt from time to time but a true friend will stand by our
side. I am here as a witness of all and also a loyal sister to state the
whole event. I hope my sister’s family will walk through the pain they
are suffering. And also I wish they did not stop believing still good
people out there and wait for them to discover.