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Misunderstanding

文章日期:2009-04-11 07:26

Date July 20th, 2004

 

有時人與人之間   不免會有誤會

重要的是你願不願意付出真心

 

It’s been a while that I did not write anything but I had experienced a lot lately.  By taking the big step to leave Kimo that I believe I have made the right choice.  As few people must have known how long have I been in net world since 1996.  I have to say again sometimes you gained and sometimes you lost that is a rule of the net world.   So far I hardly meet one net friend can be my real life friend that has not yet happened.  You have to see the real person first.  Strangers can pretend so closer only net world could.  As for me I never try to pretend no matter where I am even in net.  Somehow that it is not a rule for net world.  Only people ever come in would ever know how they really are.  Now I rather spend more time on my personal life or interest than look into a net world.  Maybe I am all tired of game played or lie that made no sense at all.  I have finally let it go for so long.

 

I don’t like to comment about how net is good or bad because it is never an open-end question.   Maybe next time I ever want to go when I am too old.  Never I stop getting to know people that it how I believe yuan.  Just a very simple thing that’s all it is.  When net connecting world together and get so closer that should be touched people’s hearts but sometimes it breaks.  For people who fall in love through net like one of us that certainly is a great memory.  Beside love or friendship or extend family that net makes everything possible.  No matter what kind of relationship you have to make it work by nonstop communication and trust and also love.  Listening for others breakup or distrust each other and many hurtful things made me feel very disappointed.  From one of my past newsletter I had addressed the issue of appearance.  We can’t judge anyone by his or her appearance and we have to look inside of a person.  Knowing a person by a photo or a phone conversation is never enough.  You just have to take time to know one another after meeting each other. 

 

Sometimes I trust people too easier that had given me a big lesson over this summer.  People tend not seem to be what they said they are till you get to know them.  I now keep little distance with anyone and that made me feel much safer.  We don’t have reason to harm anyone, but we don’t like to get hurt either.  People should all keep distance sometimes.  That is why I prefer to have contacted with my old friends because we had met in the past.  I never stop knowing new friends in many ways and I never shut my door to others.  If they are willing to get to know me, I will surely open door for them.  As you reading it now, I hope you can think about how you have missed or you may want to have.  And be careful no matter where you are!!!!!

 

Author, summercold

 

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