2009-07-26 19:22:18lorraine

兩個人

兩個人,兩個腦,兩種感受。

有些事情,以為對方會懂會明白,大家的行動會一致。

這其實是想當然而已。

有時很不明白,為何對方這樣做,這樣想,這樣說,

可能對方內心有著相同的疑問。

說到底,一個人生活會好一些,起碼每件事情是自己預計之內,雖然沒有驚喜,但是也沒有失望和不滿。

兩個人在生活的磨練,在同與不同當中接通平衡點,談何容易。

要自我封閉,密封起來,與世隔絕,是寂寞,卻不一定孤寂。

James 2009-07-27 23:05:39

We can live in solutide, but we should not block ourselves out from the world. Loneliness doesn’t mean someone who lives alone. Everyone has his/her own lonely moment.
When two people stay together, we should not doubt nor guess what things in other’s brain. Try to speak frankly, when some unexpected and unhappy things happened, though it may not help to solve the problems at the moment, at least it won’t make the atmospere worse.
Life is colourful, someone must feel and understand your considerateness.

shirley 2009-07-27 13:09:51

容易受傷的人當然很怕再受傷害,但學懂保護自己之餘也可以有多采多姿的生活!