2012-10-26 03:11:13輕如飛燕
Busy mommy life. - 忙碌的媽媽生活
I always believe the reason of why my mom is so busy all the time is because she does things slowly.
Mom, I am sorry, I was WRONG
Now I realized, Mom's nature is just like that. VERY BUSY. It doesn't matter how fast you are, or how efficient you are, or how organized you are.
I wake up around 6 something for pumping, pump for 30 minutes, and then I dress up myself. I usually decide what to wear very quick, and then can make myself ready in 10 to 15 minutes. Then I wake my baby up, change diaper for her. Till now, it has been 1 hour pass by since I wake up.
Take baby downstairs, get her milks ready, prepare for the meals for the day for her. and then prepare mine and Andy's drinks for the morning. Write the record sheet for teacher's reference. Prepare some supplements to bring to school. Put things in the car, get Ashley ready to leave. Another 30 mins pass by..
Drive to school with bad traffic, another 30 mins, give baby Ashley to teacher, talk briefly, head to work
I arrived office right on time @ 830AM...
then I leave office at evening, need to leave 530PM sharply to pick up Ashley. Arrived Day care @ nearly 6PM, and then back home 640PM.
Take her to shower by Andy, I cook, feed her later around 9PM, wash all the bottles, do exercise myself (very precious 30 minutes), take shower, and pump again.
IS nearly 12AM...
I was very frustrated, cause I thought I can do those very efficient. I tried several days, thought I just haven't get used to it yet. And turns out... I just can't be faster...or let's say, faster enough.
Rush to school, rush to work, rush to leave work to pick her up, rush to get home..
Oh my.......
Even though with Andy's help, still not quite smooth.. and result in my bad temper in the morning...
I guess being a mom is not about being efficient, instead, is being patient and being care. I am not living in the military, I am living in the family as a mom. Though I try to make things organized and efficient, the most important thing is to make my family happy. if I make them feel stressed just because things can't go smoothly, then it is wrong.
Truly admire mom this character. I am in the learning progress, hope can improve myself in the very nearly future..
媽媽，對不起，我錯了。
身為一個媽媽，忙碌就是代表象徵阿！！！跟你動作快不快，或是你有沒有效率，或是你做事情是不是有條有理，都沒關係。就是會很忙碌。
我早上六點出頭就起床，然後打奶約三十分鐘，然後我開始換衣服準備上班。通常我只要十分鐘到十五分鐘就可以把自己打理好。接著我把妹妹喚醒，幫他換尿布，等到我下樓做其他事情的時候，已經一個小時過去。
接著準備他今天要喝的奶，然後我跟豬豬早上要喝的元氣湯，填寫今日聯絡簿給老師，準備多的衣服或是尿布、奶嘴讓妹妹帶去學校。然後把東西先拿上車，最後再抱妹妹上車，等到開車出發上學的時候，又是一個三十分鐘過去了....
早上都會大塞車，儘管我可以開多人共乘道，仍舊塞塞塞....。塞到學校大概又快半小時，把東西跟妹妹帶下車，推進學校。Sing in sign out，跟老師講一下，衝到公司上班。剛好八點半。
五點半必須非常準時離開公司，我才能再將近六點的時候接到妹妹。然後回到家已經六點四十分左右。豬豬帶他洗澡，我煮飯，九點的時候餵睡前一餐，然後清洗所有的奶瓶，我做運動三十分鐘9非常珍貴的三十分鐘挨...)，自己洗澡，然後睡錢打奶。
一切結束的時候，已經將近十二點。
我本來非常的挫折，因為我已為我可以做這些事情很有效率，我以為是因為我不習慣，所以才做的比較慢。所以我多試了幾天，調整作息。更早起床。但是結果是，這些就是快不來。
匆匆忙忙的去學校，匆匆忙忙的去上班，匆匆忙忙離開公司，匆匆忙忙的接他回家。天阿.........怎麼會這麼匆忙....
儘管豬豬也做了很多事情，仍舊沒有辦法很快，結果我每天早上脾氣都不佳....
我想，身為一個母親，不是關於效率，而是關於耐心，還有關愛。我不是生活在軍隊裡，而是一個家裡的母親。我希望事情能夠有條有理，能夠有效率，但是更重要的是，我要讓我的家人開心。如果我只讓他們感覺壓力，只是因為事情不是很順利，那這樣就本末倒置了。
真的非常的敬佩天下的母親們，我還在學習的階段。希望很快可以讓我自己進步。加油阿！菜鳥媽媽Elsa