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給聰明年長者的十戒
紫玉觀音
給聰明年長者幸福十誡
'Ten taboos to
happiness ' for the
intelligent aged persons
一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。
Don't be concerned about adult children
any more,otherwise, cannot stop the
annoying chatters.
二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，
以免顧人怨。
Don't regard the adult children as of
under age and serve as a guardian for them,
so to avoid incurring complaints.
三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子
女的隱私權、自主權。
No necessary to know everything,
pay respect to the privacy and the right
of decision-making of adult children.
四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園
地，才不致天天望穿秋水。
Don't regard children and grandchildren
as a center of life, look for personal social
circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the
dilemma of anxious expectation and
disappointment daily.
五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、
唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。
Raise a habit of writing, painting,
exercising, singing to sublime your mood
by arts and creation rather than complain
to people coming across.
六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你
所做的努力。
More admiration, less complaints and
appreciate what other people have
Done for pleasing you.
七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會
惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。
Don't involve in the dispute between
grandchildren and adult children,
this act just causes adverse effects in a
bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥
要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。
Don't cry over sickness, just go to see a
doctor and take the necessary medicalpills
as prescribed, and be patient if failed to
cure.
九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊
的人，免得最後連他也走了！
Don't be skeptical to others too much, be
grateful to the person who left around you,
otherwise, he will go away from you too
eventually.
十、要多多培養宗教情操，有堅定的信仰，對未
來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。
Participate in religious activities often, be
stick to belief and take pleasant,optimistic
attitudes toward the future.
如果以上十點，每一點是十分，祝福
各位聰明的老人，都能幸福一百分。
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