Alice: that's his biz
tnsl99: of coz not
Alice: and he's mature and smart enuf to deal with that
Alice: ok, so there's no theory
Alice: americans want to date asian girls, but now asians girls date only europeans if dating caucasians
Alice: hahaha
Alice: j/k
tnsl99: hahah..dunno
tnsl99: probably
tnsl99: erin dated a frenchguy
Alice: yeah
Alice: so did Karen
tnsl99: hmm...
Alice: Erin's date @ X'mas
Alice: somehow i find them more dedicated
Alice: and giving
tnsl99: not too much bullshit
Alice: exactly
Alice: dave can't bs at all
Alice: he says what he means
Alice: and he takes what i say seriously, though most of the time i am just joking around
tnsl99: hahaha..
Alice: I'M REAlly hoping something good will happen
Alice: and this relationship last somehow longer
Alice: as my relationship odds has always been bad
Alice: 4-wk date
tnsl99: yes..i really think so too..this one sounds so much more promising
Alice: i hope so
Alice: i met joel two yrs ago exactly same date i met dave
Alice: haha
Alice: scary
Alice: and we dated straight away
tnsl99: hmm
Alice: but two years ago i was much more naive and clinging
Alice: didn't knwo what i want
tnsl99: yeah..true
Alice: just want to be with bf all the time
Alice: and lost my own perspective
tnsl99: yes yes
tnsl99: now we are almost 28
tnsl99: mature women now
Alice: HA HA
Alice: u sounds entertaining
Alice: haha
tnsl99: we are getting old u know
Alice: ai..ya
Alice: robert is 35?
tnsl99: 36
tnsl99: 8 yrs older
Alice: good
Alice: haha
Alice: dave is 37 and half
tnsl99: perfect age
Alice: so how does robert interact with ur folks?
tnsl99: i told robert i liked older guys
tnsl99: then he says
Alice: "i am the one"
tnsl99: but guys in that age range are either married, afraid of marriage, or divroced with kids
Alice: YUP YUP YUP
Alice: HAHAH
Alice: SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TRUE
tnsl99: robert? he's quiet in nature..
tnsl99: with my folks..he's ok i think
Alice: TOTALLY TRUE
Alice: 35 -yr-old guy
Alice: like those all i know
Alice: are commitment phobia
Alice: haha
Alice: can't even settle for a serious relationship
tnsl99: yes..like johan
Alice: bounce around
Alice: like david crume, brian crume, phil...
tnsl99: yes
tnsl99: seriously..don't date too long
tnsl99: he's old enuf..if everything wroks out..just get married
Alice: yeah
tnsl99: we are all mature enuf alrady
Alice: sounds like my call?
Alice: geez
Alice: it takes time still
tnsl99: i know..1/2 yr
tnsl99: or so
Alice: what??????????
Alice: tooooooooooo short
Alice: 1 yr top
Alice: maybe
tnsl99: at least starat talking abt it
Alice: otherwise it means nothing
Alice: i did
tnsl99: not saying should set a date...but just start talking abt it
Alice: Dave said he likes going with the flow
tnsl99: yup
Alice: having fun with the other person, and if things go great, then .
Alice: and yesterday i felt that i was giving an utimatum
tnsl99: u met dave last weekend right?
Alice: which i didn't even know if that's what i wanted straight away
Alice: yeah
Alice: last friday nite
tnsl99: what did u tell him?
Alice: not even a week doh
tnsl99: hahah
tnsl99: i've known robert since feb 19, 3 weeks..and only held hands last nite.heeehee
Alice: i told him i didn't want to waste time to date someone for few weeks or months to break up with
tnsl99: yeah..how can u expect someone to answe such question
Alice: i want to date someone i could fall in love with and be life longer partner with
tnsl99: just go with the flow for now
Alice: he wasn't sure about the life long partner part!
tnsl99: sounds ike both of u are already in love
Alice: it's too early, and he's just got his life back on track piece by piece
Alice: love? or lust?
Alice: heehee
Alice: not sure
tnsl99: yeah..robert says he's not even divorced yet
tnsl99: he said he's only more stable after 2 yrs of divorce
Alice: huh?
Alice: who's not even divorced?
tnsl99: i mean dave
Alice: oh yeah
Alice: and i want to get green card on my own
tnsl99: he can't get it for u even if u want him to
Alice: so i dunt think i want to get married anytime before end of this year
Alice: yeah ?
Alice: that's prolly true
tnsl99: green card holder needs at least 5 yrs to apply for spouse
tnsl99: citizen takes 1-2 yrs
Alice: yeah a whole lot to explore with dave and i've never felt this comfortable and open with someone here
Alice: ok good, i dunt need to depend on him
Alice: he's prolly a little worried bout my depression what would impact his son
tnsl99: maybe u won't be depressed anymore after being with him
Alice: but as far as i've suffered that, it's never gotten anyone involved, i deal with it myself
Alice: yeah, my mood chart has seen upwing for three wks
Alice: pretty unusual
Alice: i usually get depressed twice a month
tnsl99: of coz..
Alice: each last over a week
tnsl99: not surprised
Alice: remember last time dinner in PA with u and Michael
tnsl99: yeah?
Alice: i was in good mood
Alice: and it's been a while
Alice: hvn't been down in between
tnsl99: good
Alice: oh problly two times almost hit depression, somehow i managed to pick it up
tnsl99: keep it up
Alice: dave said it's prolly the culture clash at first when i came here and had to deal with things along
tnsl99: i dun like michael
Alice: and also lack of love
Alice: haha
tnsl99: something abt him annoys me
Alice: haha
Alice: yeah i know
Alice: he's like that
Alice: good guy
tnsl99: his face or something
tnsl99: dunno what
Alice: he used to annoy the hella me easily
Alice: and i've always been bitchy to him
Alice: but now he's a good friend, so i dunt care
Alice: haha
Alice: face
Alice: yeah
Alice: haha
Alice: and he's always too vague
tnsl99: i think for u it's lack of love
tnsl99: that's causing the depression
Alice: he wanted to date me while dating 5 other chicks
Alice: haha
tnsl99: u are always around pple..but yet nobody was close to u
Alice: i think i really desire to be cared for
tnsl99: yeah
Alice: yeah you are right
Alice: nor i want to be really close to them
tnsl99: for me..i know how it's like to be cared for and to care for someone..that's why i've never been afraid of relationships
Alice: except for you
tnsl99: but a good friend is different from a partner
Alice: yeah....