First he calls you princess, he does everything for you, takes good care of you like you are literally the princess in the nutshell.

Then he wants to discuss exclusivity with you. He seems to be one of those guys who still believes in monogamy, who claims that you are the one.

He wants to share his life, passion, happiness, goal and everything with you. He wants to fly you to anywhere you ever can think of. He wants to buy you the coolest car that matches your style. He lets you pick your dream place for the wedding.

He is a total initiator. He arranges nice trip for you, amazing dinner at fine restaurant, suggest that you be his lifetime partner. He says he misses you before he goes to bed.

Then he's got ya! Boom! He starts talking loud and getting impatient, he starts nagging at you, he starts doing things on his way, and hoping you do the same. He now wants you to be self-sufficient, better to be totally on your own. You pay for your own coffee and bagel, or he makes you feel bad by having him pay for your "flavored coffee", also known as Coffee Au Lait, because he doesn't believe anything taste better than "coffee-of-the-day."

He is not interested in doing anything with you if it wasn't productive, that means shopping, movie, kicking are totally not on his pasttime list. Now you don't even bother to ask.

Now you come down with stomachache, he doesn't even stop by gas station to buy you a bottle of water, comparing to few weeks ago, he had Aspirin ready for you when you just mentioned you had light headache.

Now you can't help but wonder, why does everything become so predictable?? THings that always seem to repeat in any new born relationship. You used to have all the attention, affection and eye contacts and now you just have to realize how rare of these privileges are given.

He says he wants a "down-to-earth" relationship, that means he is not able to give you as much passion, attention, affection as he used to be. But he argues that he's proceeded to a deeper and more profound connection with you, however, you hardly feel it. You can't help but wonder, am I hard to please? or will I ever satisfy?

Now he comes to say he can't try doing anything for you anymore, becuase you never are satisfied. Well perhaps having a princess live in a mud hut is much harder than getting a Cinderella to live in a castle.

You woke up and realize you are not a princess anymore, yet you never did live in the castle, having a knight escort you day and nite! Dream is a good way to experiment, and you almost know what's gonna be happening in the future if this story continues.

You are not the one holding the chips, he is. What is going on right now seems like a de javu. You don't like to play games, because you always lead first and screw badly in the end, though you've learned to play by rules.

Now you are lingering, "should I raise my bet? or should I just fold?"