2006-06-13 01:08:21思慕微微

50個長相廝守必須要問的問題 No4

We hear a lot today aboaut compatibility. What does this mean to you?

這是個好問題。也是我最近一直在想的問題。先將問題Post上。稍後再作回應。





Compatibility means being capable of living together harmoniously or getting along well together. If tmeans to be in agreement, to combine well. It also means blending together so a relationship enhances instead of interferres with each partner’s capabilities. A couple needs to work on compatibility in all areas of thier relationship. Those who become compatible have certain charactersistics of skills that help them develop compatibility: They flex, stretch, adapt, and change. There’s no other way.

PS. Remember this too: Partial compatibility does not work very well. It only leads to holes in the relationship. Becoming compatible is a developmental process, but if someone does not know what compatibility is , how can it grow?