2010-07-11 15:06:06隨風俠隱

愛一個人,就可以愛一輩子不變嗎?

愛一個人,

就可以愛一輩子不變嗎?

每對熱戀中的情人都

渴望一生一世山盟海誓,


但,承諾了一輩子,

就真的可以幸福美滿了嗎?


人的心思,

大概是最難捉摸也最難預估的,


有時候,也許是一件事、

一個觸發、一個領悟,


就可以改變一個人的思想,


雖然不至於讓一個人

徹頭徹尾轉了性子,


卻也可能讓一個人的行為

與之前有了差異。


說不定,

就這麼一秒的瞬間,


你可能更愛情人,


也可能發現到

好像不那麼愛了。



愛,是怎麼一回事?


愛一個人,

是一種當下的感覺。


這一刻的感覺

能不能持續到永久,


誰能夠很肯定地拍胸脯保證?


總以為,今天愛,

不代表明天還愛;


明天還愛,

不代表後天還要愛。



當日子一天天過去,

愛的感覺可能日益增長,


自然也可能日漸消褪。


所以,

誰能保證愛是不會變的呢?


在這個世界裡,

人與人的相遇愈來愈頻繁,


似乎只要一個「機緣巧合」,

就有了相戀的可能。


而也許在相愛之後,


慢慢地發現了彼此的不適合,

漸漸地把愛磨損,


到最後,

不愛了。


一直都以為,

愛是會變的。


因為,

人心會變,

感受會變。


但是,

因為愛會變,

就決定因噎廢食地不想愛了嗎?


那未免又太過消極了些!


沒錯,

愛是會變的,


然而,

可能變好,

可能變壞。


聰明的你,

想讓愛有怎樣的變化?


正因為愛會變,


人必須學著更成熟地

去處理自己心情上的變化;


因為愛會變,

人必須懂得去經營愛情,


讓愛歷久彌堅。


當你已經盡了最大的努力,


卻發現愛依然殘酷地有了改變,


那麼也沒有什麼好遺憾的了,


反正別人不愛你,

你還可以愛自己。


懂得體認愛的善變,


慢慢學著去適應

愛所帶來的一切,


當愛隨著時間改變時,


你也必須學著時間而有所成長,

 
如此一來,


你才能勇敢去面對

因為愛所帶來的任何衝擊,


甚至如魚得水。


所以,

學著去接受愛是會變的,


敞開心胸去擁抱愛的善變,


那麼,

你將會發現,

不管愛怎樣改變,


你都可以保有完整的自我,


不讓愛的多變深刻地傷了你。


最後,

你會發現,


與其祈禱「不要變」,

不如讓自己隨愛而變,


當愛消褪時,

適時地添柴加溫;


當愛發燒時,

適當地緩和兩人的激情。


讓愛可以恆溫地持續下去,

才是真正懂得愛的人。


一生;總有幾次如初戀般的情感,


每一段無論是多少歲數的愛情際遇.


總是會有一方生變;在這世上,


很少人可以完全保證自己永不變心.

因為~~~~


人與人的際遇.緣份...

都是微妙.


也都是令人有遲來的感覺.


對感情也是如此.


不一定要彼此不變,


有時曾經真心的相待過....


其感動與感受;


不會輸給長久卻是乏味的相守.........


只要曾經有過如此單純而喜悅的一段....


對於人生~~~已是滿足!


隨變吧!


不要去牽強任何一段情感.


懂得隨愛而愛...


因為.....


曾經真實短暫的有過;


不要空虛的長久!

 Love a person,

You can love life the same?

Each pair of love lover

Desire to lifetime vows.


But the commitment of a lifetime

Really happy?


People's thoughts,

Is probably the most elusive of the most difficult to estimate the


Sometimes, perhaps it is one thing,

A trigger, an insight


Can change a person's thinking,


Although not let a person

Outright transfer of a temper,


But may also make a person's behavior

With the difference with the previous.


Maybe,

So a second moment,


You may be more to love people,


Also may be found to

Does not seem so in love with.



Love, how it is?


Love a person,

Is one kind of feeling of the moment.


The feeling of this moment

Can not last forever.


Who can be pretty sure to ensure that each of the offerings?


Always thought that love today,

Does not mean that tomorrow also love;


Tomorrow is love,

Does not mean still love the day after tomorrow.



When the days are every day in the past,

The feeling of love may be growing


Naturally also be the erosion.


Therefore, the

Who can guarantee that love will not change?


In this world,

People encounter more and more frequent


It seems that as long as a "lucky coincidence".

There is love possible.


And perhaps in love after


Slowly found each other is not suitable for

Gradually wear the love


In the end,

Do not love.


Has been thought,

Love is capricious.


Because

People become

Feelings become.


However, the

Love becomes

Decided unworthy do not want to love you?


That a bit too negative a bit!


Yes,

Love is bound to change,


However, the

May become

May deteriorate.


Wise,

Want to love what changes?


Love becomes


People must learn to be more mature

To deal with their own mood changes;


Love becomes

The people must know how to operate the love


Let love enduring.


When you have done the greatest efforts,


But love is still cruel to have changed,


Then there is no nothing to regret,


Anyway, people do not love you,

You can love yourself.


Know how to recognize love, fickle,


Gradually learn to adapt to

Love all


When love change over time,


You must learn and grow,


As a result,


You can brave face

Because any impact brought about by love,


Even duck to water.


Therefore, the

Learn to accept love is capricious,


Open our hearts to embrace the love of the fickle


So,

You will find that

Love how the change,


You are able to maintain a complete, self-


To prevent the changing of love and hurt you deeply.


Finally, the

You will find that


Instead of prayer, "Do not change"

Is better to change with the love


When love fades

Tianchai heating in a timely manner;


When the love of fever,

Appropriate to ease the passion of the two.


Let Love thermostat to continue,

Really know how to love.


Life; several first love feelings


Each section regardless of the number of age love fortune.


There will always be a party has changed; in this world,


Few people can fully guarantee they will never change.

~ ~ ~ ~


Encounters between people. Fate ...

Are subtle.


Are also very belated feeling.


The same is true for feelings.


Do not have to each other the same,


Sometimes have truly the treatment ....


Their feelings and experience;


Not lost a long time but it is boring spend .........


As long as there have been so simple and a joy period ....


For the life ~ ~ ~ to meet!


With the change it!


Do not go to far-fetched any period of emotion.


Know how to love with love ...


Because .....


Have had a real short;


Do not empty a long time!

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