2023-03-05 00:59:52夏寒

Life matter

Life matter and we can prevent it by working together!
Just heard a neighbor told me that her husband took his own life last night. I was away for a birthday party when I returned there were police cars again. Just few months ago the same neighbor fell so EMT came. After my son told me the EMT did come again, I had tried to reach out to her.
Few weeks ago a neighbor at my Godmother's neighborhood asked me to create a in person caregiver group for her. She has been taken care of her husband since he got COVID almost 2 years.
I knew taken care of someone is a stressful job especially with dementia. Someday you are happy, other day you may be sad. When they forgot you, you just want to cry! I hope everyone would focus on your love ones' state of mind and also yours own. If you ever recalled the beginning of the show from "How are you? Who am I?" with a loving son taken care of his dementia mother then took both of their lives by suicide. I hope to take this time to share awareness and you could always call suicide hotline not sure what number for Taiwan.
Find a closer circle of friends or family members to schedule the meeting regularly. Only your mind changed you can be saved. Our mind could be just one second of weakness we could suffer the loss. After going through my husband's death, now nothing really can beat me on. Death is like smoke as they are gone, but we are still here. Even all religious do not approve death. We could prevent suicide if we spend more time to reach out others and care for them. I hope you pass on this message. Only living you can make more memories with one another.