To my singles:

These days I had heard some of people that they turn their passion to exchange painful experiences.  So I like to talk about love from the distance today.  When we first to know a person, what should we position ourselves.  The best way to start from the distance.  Because we might not even know what this person really is till we get to know more.  People tend to wear their mask when they are with strangers.  It is better to keep distance when you don't know them as well.  It is okay to care for strangers, but you have to be careful as well as their hidden intention is.  Start being just their friends and listen what they said because they might share with you both truth and lie.  It is always taking time to really get to know someone.  So love from the distance is you really want to be with him or her.

above advice written from toughrose