第一次聽到這首歌是在一位女同事的宿舍，當時她所放的唱片的其中一首。

不知道大家是否有此經驗？有一種女生，不僅外表亮麗，而且是那種招蜂引蝶型的，使得無論已婚未婚的男士趨之若鶩，個個都想一親芳澤，卻沒有會想將之娶回家當老婆的念頭。我的這位女同事就是這種類型，而我就是其中的一個豬哥，最後的結果是：我並未成為入幕之賓。

我的內心當然很「幹」。後來我在想，這類的女生真的很惡劣，你找她出去玩，OK。看電影吃飯，OK。送她禮物，OK。做她的勞力公差，OK。反正什麼都OK，但想要「進一步」，就NO素。遇到我們這種已有老婆的，就鼻子摸一摸活該自己認了。但有些自認投入了感情或是花了大把銀子的，可能就會想不開，也無怪乎會有如此多的約會暴力及情殺事件。對於這類交男性朋友不知守分際的女性被害人，我是不會寄予同情的。

You're only lonely？你只是孤單寂寞嗎？不是的。結了婚還想泡妞不是因為寂寞，可能是想藉由挑戰再來加強自信吧。什麼？歪理？哈哈哈！聽歌啦～！

When the world is ready to fall on your little shoulders,
And when you're feeling lonely and small,
You need somebody there to hold you.
You can call out my name... when you're only lonely,
Now, don't you ever be ashamed, you're only lonely,

When you need somebody around on the nights that try you,
(Remember) I was there when you were a queen,
And I'll be the last one there beside you.
So you can call out my name... when you're only lonely.
Now, don't you ever be ashamed, you're only lonely,

When the world is ready to fall on your little shoulders,
And when you're feeling lonely and small,
You need somebody there to hold you.
So don't you ever be ashamed, you're only lonely.
Ah, you can call out my name... when you're only lonely,

When you're only lonely...
Ah, it's no crime... darling, we've got lots of time.

Ah, there's nothing wrong with you...
Darling, I get lonely, too.

So if you need me, all you gotta do is call me.
You're only lonely