Since last night, I was able to express my feelings by saying no to my guy. On certain things. And it actually felt good!

I am me. I control my life..no more waiting around. and it feels really good.  

Today I went to see the movie " my social network."   My moral of the story is: when there's business, you need to play with both evil and bright sides to get what you want.  Maybe not everyone comes into play is a good person, however, they too, can contribute a lot to the success of a business.  Of course more importantly, you can't forget about those who are loyal and helped you succeed. 

Also today I am wondering..If I find doing business in Asia is fun, would my guy be able to come to stay with me?  Somehow I think, it could be a yes to him. As long as it is a good biz venture to him.  The first step for him is to see if he'll really come to asia soon.. and his perception of asian environment. Then we can talk about the rest. If not..hey. no time should be wasted.