Experience taught me that it’s important NOT to lose who you are in a
relationship just becoz it’s nice to cuddle with somebody.

You have to constantly say, Does this person make me happy?
Am I confident with whom I am in this relationship?

For true happiness, you’re confident that he’s/she’s not gonna let you
down or make you feel stupid…he’s/she’s, like, your partner.

That’s how you know you are happy.