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安服人的方法_聖嚴弘法師
忍要柔：明白起因、過程、結果，知合理心變柔。
(例如：知道學生脾氣背後的家庭背景，就不容易被激怒。)
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好文閱讀
【聖嚴法師108自在語】安人者必然是和眾者，服人者必然是柔忍者，因為和能合眾，柔能克剛。
If you want to bring peace to others, be in harmony with them. If you wish to sway others, be accommodating. To establish harmony is to unite people, as the soft can conquer the hard.
(例如：知道學生脾氣背後的家庭背景，就不容易被激怒。)
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好文閱讀
【聖嚴法師108自在語】安人者必然是和眾者，服人者必然是柔忍者，因為和能合眾，柔能克剛。
If you want to bring peace to others, be in harmony with them. If you wish to sway others, be accommodating. To establish harmony is to unite people, as the soft can conquer the hard.