Once one of my friends told me:
"There is a paradox exsiting in a relationship..."
So..what does "paradox" mean?
A paradox may account for the conflicts or contraditions that occur between two persons, or, even in a larger sense, among people.

A nice quote from him, sadly, delineates his emotion:
"The more he cares about one person, the less he would like to tell the other person, say, the one he cares the most, what he thought and what happened to him in order not to make the person worry too much about him...."

Absolutely, this is quite understandable...however,
"This relentless silence between them may wane the relationship gradually, even seriously, and, unconcsiously."

Perhaps both of them are unable to change something unless the problematic one figures out and gets rid of the shits...

A sad story...