Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the boy who kisses you on your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you’re in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, ’’...that’s her" and smiles. - Unknown


路過朋友的BLOG，看到這樣的一段。我想每一個女孩子都想過這些吧？只是在現實中，有很多原因令女孩子墮入一段更虛無的感情。

聰明的男孩會用很多的甜蜜，用心，去取替這些真心真意。也或者朋友是太明白這點，才把這段放在她的BLOG上？　

看畢，想加上一句，請閉起雙眼，用心去感受，那些是刻意的哄你，那些是真正用心的去感受你的需要？那些事做出來，到底是為了要使你感動，還是因為真的愛你？


朋友在最後問除了對女孩子的，有沒有對男孩子的。我想了想：　

找個女孩愛你的名字，不是你的名片。
愛你的品行，不是你身上的品牌。
找個女孩不只愛你的幽默，更欣賞你的沉默。


還有沒有？？　　

只要有幸找到一個如此，夫復何求？