Recently,
one of my friends faces a really bad situation he ever has in his life,
he lost most of the value things he has,
after struggling of this kind of life,
he makes his mind to change some impropriate habits
and become a fresh new one!

From his story, I am just thinking..
In our life, we always keep meeting people, good ones and bad ones,
Sometimes, we really like the encouragements and the supports from those good people,
we all don’t like the bad things happen to us or the mean ways those bad people do to us,
but I wonder,
why we always changed because of these bad things?
Perhaps we would improve little because of those good people,
but we often change a lot or
make a big important decision by forcing ourselves forward after those bad things.

Let me tell you my story:
When I worked in the credit card center of a bank,
everybody seems like me and we got along very well,
but one day a new manager came to our department,
she was really mean to everyone, especially to those with more experience than her.
But if I didn’t meet her, perhaps I still work there instead of studying in UK.
She drives me a hunger, to somewhere higher than her, to be more excellent!

Or I can say, we make us better but need different forces?
And I finally got to know,
usually the objectors or the mean people give you the more power to go forward.

So, thanks for the bad and mean people make us stronger,
and make those good become more valuable…