When I was young I never needed anyone
And makin’ love was just for fun
Those days are gone Livin’ alone
I think of all the friends I’ve known
But when I dial the telephone Nobody’s home
All by myself Don’t wanna be, all by myself anymore
All by myself Don’t wanna live, all by myself anymore
Hard to be sure Sometimes I feel so insecure
And love so distant and obscure Remains the cure



小時後聽這首歌不太有什麼感覺, 一直到

某天看到 [ BJ 單身日記 ] , 有一幕

她穿著邋遢 , 嘴裡灌著紅酒,

孤身一人在房間裡五音不全的唱著all by myself ~

頓時...... 心情忽然黯淡下來.


這首歌真是唱盡所有單身熟女的心聲 .


我常常提醒自己, 別為了害怕

孤單而委屈自己遷就不適合的人.

委屈從來就不能夠求全,

只會把自己壓縮得扭曲變形,逐漸失去自我.


單身偶爾也許會有些自憐, 感到孤單.

但是比起愛上不適合的人, 有個不

愉快的婚姻, 相形之下頓時就顯得不算什麼.



每一段感情結束, 我都會衷心的祝福

對方, 能遇見比我更適合的人.

如此我才能頭也不回的展開新的人生旅程.