悲傷、憤怒都是二度傷害，而且，都是自己給自己的傷害。
https://www.siudz.com/news/hu-zhao-xin-pian-jian-pu-zhai-yu-fei-lv-bin-kai-qi-shuang-bian-hu-zhao-bian-li-xin-pian-zhang.htm
當人自怨自哀，或開始責怪他人的時候，失敗就算定案了。
https://std.stheadline.com/sc/realtime/article/1982937/%E5%8D%B3%E6%99%82-%E5%A8%9B%E6%A8%82-%E7%B1%83%E7%90%83%E6%95%99%E7%
https://www.siudz.com/news/dong-nan-ya-di-li-mi-si-fei-lv-bin-yu-jian-pu-zhai-ni-zhen-de-le-jie-ta-men-de-wei-zhi-ma.html