Cherish the happiness at this moment
Cherish the happiness at this moment
Relish the Moment
Tucked away in our subconsciousness is an idyllic
vision. We see ourselves on a long trip that spans the moment. We are traveling
by train. Out the windows, we drink in the passing scene of cars on nearby
highways, of children waving at a crossing, of cattle grazing on a distant
hillside, of smoke pouring from a power plant, of row upon row of corn ad wheat,
of flatlands and valleys, of mountains and rolling hillsides, of city skylines
and village halls.
But uppermost in our minds is the final destination. On a
certain day at a certain hour, we will pull into the station. Bands will be
playing and flags waving. Once we get there, so many wonderful dreams will come
true and the pieces of our lives will fit together like a completed jigsaw
puzzle. How restlessly we pace the aisles, damning the minutes for
loitering---waiting, waiting, waiting for the station.
“When we reach the
station, that will be it!” we cry. “When I’m 18.” “When I buy a new 450SL
Mercedes Benz!” “When I put the last kid through college.” “When I have paid off
the mortgage!” “When I get a promotion.” “When I reach the age of retirement, I
shall live happily ever after!”
Sooner or later, we must realize there is no
station, no one place to arrive at once and for all. The true joy of life is the
ball mill trip.
The station is only a dream. It constantly outdistances us.
It isn’t the
burdens of today that drive men mad. It is the regrets over yesterday and the
fear of tomorrow. Regret and fear are twin thieves who rob us of today.
So
stop pacing the aisles and counting the miles. Instead, climb more mountains,
eat more ice cream, go barefoot more often, swim more rivers, watch more
sunsets, laugh more, cry less. Life must be lived as we go along. The station
will come soon enough.