【心情故事】孩子(選自紀伯倫的書《先知》)
孩子(選自紀伯倫的書《先知》)
一位懷抱嬰兒的婦女說道:請和我們說說關於'孩子'的事。
他於是說道:
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.
孩子實際上並不是'你們的'孩子
他們乃是生命本身的企盼
他們只是經你而生,並非從你們而來
他們雖與你們同在,卻不屬於你們
你們可以給於他們的,是你們的愛,而不是思想,因為他們有自己的思想
你們可以庇蔭他們的身體,卻不能庇蔭他們的靈魂,
因為他們的靈魂居於明日的世界,那是你們在夢中也無法探訪的地方
你可以努力地學像他們一樣,但是,不要白費力氣要他們像你
因為歲月無法倒流,生命也不會停滯於昨日
你們是弓,孩子是從你們身上發出的生命之箭
那射箭者在蒼茫路途中看定目標,用全力將你們引滿一個彎弓,
使你手中的箭射得又快又遠
當為射箭者所成就的一切歡欣喜悅
因為祂不僅愛那射出的飛箭,也愛手中握的那穩固的彎弓