To post my personal life and thoughts here, I of course have to face the risk of public judgement. Some people may be intereted in my stories, some may like me, and some may dislike me. I don't really care whether you like or dislike me and whether you agree or disagree with me. You have your opinions, and I have mine. But I do think that everyone needs to repect each other.

"Before you judge me, try hard to love me..." Asking a stranger to love may be too much, but it shall be fair enough to ask you to understand a person before you judge them. I would like to ask for your respect for me if you want to make some judgement about me. If you are not my long time close friend, I request you to keep your judgement to yourself because it is harmful and disrespectful to make a public judgement while you do not really understand the person you judge.