2007-01-27 02:44:10葉子媽媽
Sunflower and Sunshine
Sunflower and Sunshine
What is the relationship between sunflower and sunshine?
I think it is ”love.” It is love connects them even they would never really reach each other. In this cold weather, I found a file which was there for several months. Acutally, it is last summer. When Big Bear and me were still far apart. I was asking him....
Why do you like me? What makes you like me?
He gave me a list few days later.Now, after 5 months later, I read this list again. It is the sunshine for me in this cold winter. And I am the only blossom sunflower with the warm sunshine.
Reasons I like Jill:
1. Jill likes me.
2. Jill has a good heart.She is a good person.
3. Jill is honest.I don’t want to fool around with deception and dishonesty - life is too short.
4. Jill has a heart for God.I want a woman who will teach my kids to love God.
5. Jill likes children.Important to find a woman who loves children.
6. Jill is cute.I think our kids will be cute.
7. Jill is Taiwanese - I think Asian girls are cute and beautiful.
8. Jill speaks good English.Not perfect, but we can understand each other better than most girls in Taiwan.
9. Jill is smart - educated.She can teach our children.
10. Jill is clever - good IQ.
11. Jill has a sense of humor (not many girls have a real sense of humor.)
12. Jill has experienced a foreign country.She knows it is not easy.
13. Jill sees things wrong with her native culture (I find things wrong with my native culture.)Not always easy to do.
14. Jill knows how to save money.
15. Jill is analytical in her thinking.(Not many girls want to think.)
16. Jill is not too young.(She will not make the same mistakes a young girl would make. Her age is closer to mine - better for a life companion.)
17. Jill is open minded about moving to my country.
18. Jill has experienced culture shock - we have a common experience.
19. Jill is open minded.Good thing for cross-cultural relationships.
20. Jill is small - small girls like me.
21. There is something different about Jill.Not sure what it is. Maybe it is how we met - God’s timing.
22. Jill gives good hugs.
23. When I saw Jill, I wanted to be with her.When others are with her, I am a bit jealous.
24. I think Jill is cuddly - like a teddy bear.I think she will be comfortable to sleep with and to wake up next to.
25. Jill doesn’t need makeup to be beautiful.(I have to wonder what she will look like with makeup on.And the feel of lipstick from her kiss.)
26. Jill is comfortable with me.I am comfortable with her.
27. Jill doesn’t like her pagan background.I don’t want to see my kids bai-bai.
28. As she gets older, I think Jill will become more beautiful - because of her heart.
29. Even though we are far apart, our relationship is growing stronger.It means we are trying.
30. Jill has good handwriting.
31. Jill says she can clean house and cook.I think it is good to find someone who can and will help me do the things I am poor at.
32. Jill respects me.
33. I think Jill can make a house into a home.
34. We both want to to be on the same team.The team is more important than the individual.The individual’s needs are important to the team.
35. Jill wants to have babies.She is open to adoption.(I want to have babies and am open to adoption.)
36. Jill likes cheese.She will try western foods.She likes many western foods.
37. Jill likes to cook.Good quality for a wife and mother.
38. I may not have much money, but Jill says it is OK.Character is more important than money.
39. Jill is willing to work to earn money for our family.A servant’s attitude.If I die, she can support herself.
40. Jill accepts the idea that the Bible says the husband is the leader of the family.(Many American girls want to be the boss.)
41. If I ask, Jill will tell me her opinions.If I am the leader, I will need a good advisor.
42. We share secrets.
43. Jill is a good friend.I want her to be my best friend.
44. Jill likes blue.I like blue.
45. Knowing Jill has changed my life.How I look at life.
46. When I hear love songs, I think of Jill.
47. Jill has a Chi-pao.(I think she will look terribly beautiful in a Chi-pao.When I see her, it will take my breath awway.)
48. When I think about Jill, sometimes there is a strong feeling inside.
49. Jill said, ”I Love You.”I didn’t have to ask her to say it.
50. Sometimes, when I think about her, I have to cry.For 40 years I looked.She is the first one to love me.
51. No one else I ever met is like her.Not in America, not in Taiwan.Not just because she likes me - her personality, her heart, mind - everything about her.
52. All the times I doubted, Jill assured me she is real.
53. Jill has promised me a hug.
54. Jill has promised that face to face, she will be honest, so I can see the real her.
55. Jill has high standards - she has not slept with another man.
56. Jill doesn’t drink.
57. Jill doesn’t smoke.
58. Jill would rather live with me than a cat.
59. Jill says she will take care of me when I am old.(Only a short time ago, I wondered what I will do.)
60. Jill wants an affectionate family.
61. Jill wants a godly home for our family.
62. Jill will let me have good friends who are girls.(Not to take her place, but Christian sisters.)
63. If she had one, and if she wanted to wear it, but only for her husband, I think Jill could look cute in a bikini.(But she doesn’t have to. :-)
64. Jill is modest about her body.(I am selfish - I don’t want to share it.)
65. Jill likes to hold hands with her bf.She says it is a nice feeling.I don’t know yet.But I want to try it with her.
66. I do not have experience being romantic with a girl.Jill says it is OK, she want to be my first gf.
67. So many times, I thought Jill would be gone.That I say something and scare her away.But she is still here.
68. Jill called me on the phone before leaving Taiwan.Jill and I know there is sometings special about it.
69. From the begining, things were right.And Jill was not afraid to let me know she liked me.Did God play a hand in this?We think so.
70. Jill trusts me.
71. Jill doesn’t chew beetel nut.
72. Don’t have to compromise on values to like Jill.
73. Idea of introducing Jill to my family does not scare me.They will like her.
74. Jill likes to take walks, I like to take walks.
75. Jill is encouraging.I have problems teaching in Taiwan - Jill encourages me.
76. Jill is like sunshine in my life.
77. I think Jill has nice buns.Not to black; not too white; not to hard; not too soft - just right.(I admit I’m guessing.I wasn’t noticing these when I saw her before.)
78. Jill has dreams about me.I think I dream about her.
79. Jill is worth leaving my jobs and house and crossing the oceans and mountains to go see.
80. The things I have wanted in a wife - Jill has these.
81. I want to tell everyone I love Jill.But we agree it’s not time yet.
82. Jill is female.(I’m just not interested in boys.)
83. Jill likes boys, not girls.
84. Jill is cool.
85. Jill is socially modest.She doesn’t have to be the most popular.She isn’t a dysfunctional introvert.
86. Jill is not perfect.If she was perfect, she wouldn’t want me.
87. Jill doesn’t need me.She can be independent.She isn’t like the girls deperately seeking a man.She wants me by choice.
88. I met Jill at a Bible study.One of the best places to meet.
89. Jill accepts the authority of the Bible over the authority of a pastor.
90. Jill is seeking to please God, not people.Jill is seeking God independently of me, not because of me.
91. Jill is forgiving.
92. Teddy bear, T-shirt, ring, and Jill.
93. The teddy bear is soft, huggable, small, and cute.Jill is soft, huggable, small, and cute.
94. Jill has promised to wait for me.
95. Jill asked me if she can go out with friends for pizza.She cares about what I think.
96. Even though we are passionate about each other, true love waits. We will wait.
97. We want to base out realtionship on spiritual, intellectual, and emotional things.
98. When I test Jill - try to see what she believes, she passes the tests.
99. I was a little worried abut her feelings about training children.She seems to believe the Bible’s way over the ways they teach in University.
100. We both want what is best for each other spiritually, even if that means we must break up and live separate lives.
101. We seem to have a union of spirit and mind.My thinking and her thinking seem to be the same.
(Thanks for my sunshine shares his photo.)
What is the relationship between sunflower and sunshine?
I think it is ”love.” It is love connects them even they would never really reach each other. In this cold weather, I found a file which was there for several months. Acutally, it is last summer. When Big Bear and me were still far apart. I was asking him....
Why do you like me? What makes you like me?
He gave me a list few days later.Now, after 5 months later, I read this list again. It is the sunshine for me in this cold winter. And I am the only blossom sunflower with the warm sunshine.
Reasons I like Jill:
1. Jill likes me.
2. Jill has a good heart.She is a good person.
3. Jill is honest.I don’t want to fool around with deception and dishonesty - life is too short.
4. Jill has a heart for God.I want a woman who will teach my kids to love God.
5. Jill likes children.Important to find a woman who loves children.
6. Jill is cute.I think our kids will be cute.
7. Jill is Taiwanese - I think Asian girls are cute and beautiful.
8. Jill speaks good English.Not perfect, but we can understand each other better than most girls in Taiwan.
9. Jill is smart - educated.She can teach our children.
10. Jill is clever - good IQ.
11. Jill has a sense of humor (not many girls have a real sense of humor.)
12. Jill has experienced a foreign country.She knows it is not easy.
13. Jill sees things wrong with her native culture (I find things wrong with my native culture.)Not always easy to do.
14. Jill knows how to save money.
15. Jill is analytical in her thinking.(Not many girls want to think.)
16. Jill is not too young.(She will not make the same mistakes a young girl would make. Her age is closer to mine - better for a life companion.)
17. Jill is open minded about moving to my country.
18. Jill has experienced culture shock - we have a common experience.
19. Jill is open minded.Good thing for cross-cultural relationships.
20. Jill is small - small girls like me.
21. There is something different about Jill.Not sure what it is. Maybe it is how we met - God’s timing.
22. Jill gives good hugs.
23. When I saw Jill, I wanted to be with her.When others are with her, I am a bit jealous.
24. I think Jill is cuddly - like a teddy bear.I think she will be comfortable to sleep with and to wake up next to.
25. Jill doesn’t need makeup to be beautiful.(I have to wonder what she will look like with makeup on.And the feel of lipstick from her kiss.)
26. Jill is comfortable with me.I am comfortable with her.
27. Jill doesn’t like her pagan background.I don’t want to see my kids bai-bai.
28. As she gets older, I think Jill will become more beautiful - because of her heart.
29. Even though we are far apart, our relationship is growing stronger.It means we are trying.
30. Jill has good handwriting.
31. Jill says she can clean house and cook.I think it is good to find someone who can and will help me do the things I am poor at.
32. Jill respects me.
33. I think Jill can make a house into a home.
34. We both want to to be on the same team.The team is more important than the individual.The individual’s needs are important to the team.
35. Jill wants to have babies.She is open to adoption.(I want to have babies and am open to adoption.)
36. Jill likes cheese.She will try western foods.She likes many western foods.
37. Jill likes to cook.Good quality for a wife and mother.
38. I may not have much money, but Jill says it is OK.Character is more important than money.
39. Jill is willing to work to earn money for our family.A servant’s attitude.If I die, she can support herself.
40. Jill accepts the idea that the Bible says the husband is the leader of the family.(Many American girls want to be the boss.)
41. If I ask, Jill will tell me her opinions.If I am the leader, I will need a good advisor.
42. We share secrets.
43. Jill is a good friend.I want her to be my best friend.
44. Jill likes blue.I like blue.
45. Knowing Jill has changed my life.How I look at life.
46. When I hear love songs, I think of Jill.
47. Jill has a Chi-pao.(I think she will look terribly beautiful in a Chi-pao.When I see her, it will take my breath awway.)
48. When I think about Jill, sometimes there is a strong feeling inside.
49. Jill said, ”I Love You.”I didn’t have to ask her to say it.
50. Sometimes, when I think about her, I have to cry.For 40 years I looked.She is the first one to love me.
51. No one else I ever met is like her.Not in America, not in Taiwan.Not just because she likes me - her personality, her heart, mind - everything about her.
52. All the times I doubted, Jill assured me she is real.
53. Jill has promised me a hug.
54. Jill has promised that face to face, she will be honest, so I can see the real her.
55. Jill has high standards - she has not slept with another man.
56. Jill doesn’t drink.
57. Jill doesn’t smoke.
58. Jill would rather live with me than a cat.
59. Jill says she will take care of me when I am old.(Only a short time ago, I wondered what I will do.)
60. Jill wants an affectionate family.
61. Jill wants a godly home for our family.
62. Jill will let me have good friends who are girls.(Not to take her place, but Christian sisters.)
63. If she had one, and if she wanted to wear it, but only for her husband, I think Jill could look cute in a bikini.(But she doesn’t have to. :-)
64. Jill is modest about her body.(I am selfish - I don’t want to share it.)
65. Jill likes to hold hands with her bf.She says it is a nice feeling.I don’t know yet.But I want to try it with her.
66. I do not have experience being romantic with a girl.Jill says it is OK, she want to be my first gf.
67. So many times, I thought Jill would be gone.That I say something and scare her away.But she is still here.
68. Jill called me on the phone before leaving Taiwan.Jill and I know there is sometings special about it.
69. From the begining, things were right.And Jill was not afraid to let me know she liked me.Did God play a hand in this?We think so.
70. Jill trusts me.
71. Jill doesn’t chew beetel nut.
72. Don’t have to compromise on values to like Jill.
73. Idea of introducing Jill to my family does not scare me.They will like her.
74. Jill likes to take walks, I like to take walks.
75. Jill is encouraging.I have problems teaching in Taiwan - Jill encourages me.
76. Jill is like sunshine in my life.
77. I think Jill has nice buns.Not to black; not too white; not to hard; not too soft - just right.(I admit I’m guessing.I wasn’t noticing these when I saw her before.)
78. Jill has dreams about me.I think I dream about her.
79. Jill is worth leaving my jobs and house and crossing the oceans and mountains to go see.
80. The things I have wanted in a wife - Jill has these.
81. I want to tell everyone I love Jill.But we agree it’s not time yet.
82. Jill is female.(I’m just not interested in boys.)
83. Jill likes boys, not girls.
84. Jill is cool.
85. Jill is socially modest.She doesn’t have to be the most popular.She isn’t a dysfunctional introvert.
86. Jill is not perfect.If she was perfect, she wouldn’t want me.
87. Jill doesn’t need me.She can be independent.She isn’t like the girls deperately seeking a man.She wants me by choice.
88. I met Jill at a Bible study.One of the best places to meet.
89. Jill accepts the authority of the Bible over the authority of a pastor.
90. Jill is seeking to please God, not people.Jill is seeking God independently of me, not because of me.
91. Jill is forgiving.
92. Teddy bear, T-shirt, ring, and Jill.
93. The teddy bear is soft, huggable, small, and cute.Jill is soft, huggable, small, and cute.
94. Jill has promised to wait for me.
95. Jill asked me if she can go out with friends for pizza.She cares about what I think.
96. Even though we are passionate about each other, true love waits. We will wait.
97. We want to base out realtionship on spiritual, intellectual, and emotional things.
98. When I test Jill - try to see what she believes, she passes the tests.
99. I was a little worried abut her feelings about training children.She seems to believe the Bible’s way over the ways they teach in University.
100. We both want what is best for each other spiritually, even if that means we must break up and live separate lives.
101. We seem to have a union of spirit and mind.My thinking and her thinking seem to be the same.
(Thanks for my sunshine shares his photo.)
Amazing love!
I am touched beyond words.
Big Bear 101
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Sometimes we forget the feeling when the love is not fresh anymore. And then, we take everything for granted. One day, this reminds me how did we start liking and loving each other. How did we think of each other at that moment. Remind myself don
2007-01-29 06:07:52
wow, this is a very long list of LOVE.
:)
So, your big bear is not Asian, his mother tongue is English, right?
It is so good for you, you can learn to speak English even faster!!
Hope you guys communicate well forever. :D
So far...we do need more patience to communicate on some issues, especially cross-cultural ideas.
Have the way of God to do things is always what we want. It seems that we know that we have to communicate well, we are careful to get some thinking across, instead of expecting someone will understand your needs without speaking out. 2007-02-01 12:44:43