～曼殊攝影～

這是臉書上的一位外國朋友分享的故事，覺得很棒，翻譯成中文跟大家分享：

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter:

"Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the

river." The little girl said:

"No, Dad. You hold my hand."

"What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl.

"If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are

 that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for

sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in

its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather

than expecting them to hold yours.

一個小女孩和父親正在過橋。父親擔心小女孩的安全，對她說：

「親愛的，請握緊我的手，這樣你就不會掉到河裡。」

這個小女孩對父親說：「不，你握我的手。」

父親一臉困惑地問著：「有什麼不一樣呢？」

小女孩回答說：「非常不一樣！」

小女孩說：「如果是我握著你的手，當有事情發生時，這唯一的機會是我可以放開你的手，但是如果是你握著我的手，我知道不論發生任何事情，你一定不會鬆開你的手。」

在任何的關係中，信任的本質不是它的束縛，而是在它的聯繫。所以，緊握著你所愛的人的手，而不是期待對方來握你的手。