晚上很想看一遍sammi的有約專訪，這是我第三次看這個節目，但是卻是第一次從頭到尾、完完整整地觀看。

老實說，鳳凰的《魯豫有約》的策劃、選題、嘉賓都做得不錯，唯一的致命傷是主持人太敗筆，很不喜歡總把自己當回事，甚至老認為自己高人一等的主持人，主持人的任務就是挑起話題，讓嘉賓多說話，而不是主持人本身在賣弄自己有什么學識，自顧自地一味夸夸其談，如果主持人要想自己把話都說了，那請嘉賓的意義何來，哪個觀眾還愿意看這樣的節目呢？訪談節目吸引眼球的就是嘉賓啊！再說，有真正淵博學識和見識的主持人也沒幾個，就拜托做好本職工作，別端著架子了，主持人嚴格說來也算是藝人了，就是再成功的主持人也成不了大明星，充其量二流小明星一個。说回《鲁豫有约》的主持陈鲁豫，在其节目中总是卖弄自己英语好、有学问、知性，但是她只知道“去爱吧，像不曾受过一次伤一样；跳舞吧，像没有人欣赏一样；唱歌吧，像没有任何人聆听一样；干活吧，像不需要钱一样；生活吧，像今天是末日一样”這段話來自韓劇，卻不知這段話的出處來自一段很有名的英文文章，原文見下：

For a long time it seemed to me that life was about to begin , real life. But, there was always some obsacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinnished business, time still to be served or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you share it with someone special, someone special enough to spend your time with. Make the most of your time. Don’t waste too much of your time studying, working, or stressing about something that seems important. Do what you want to do to be happy but also do what you can to make the people you care about happy. Remember that time waits for no one. So stop waiting until you take your last test, until you finnish school, until you go back to school, until you have the perfect body, the perfect car, or whatever other perfect thing you desire.
Stop waiting until the weekend, when you can party or let loose, until summer, spring, fall or winter, until you find the right person and get married, until you die, until your born again, to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
So work like you don’t need the money, Love like you have never been hurt, and dance like no one’s watching.
Happiness Is A Journey
------ By Father Alfred D’Souza

原文作者是一位名字叫做 Alfred D’Souza 的神父，原文的主旨是在告诉人们要更加珍惜那些可以与别人共度过的时光，不要等待，没有通往快乐的道路，因为快乐本身就是道路，是一段旅程，而不是终点。

其實，通過訪問，明顯看出陳魯豫在對sammi的訪問之前沒有做夠充足的工作，因此很多話題本可以引出來的，或者能夠加深的，但是因為她的不了解情況，加上她自己的愛顯擺，讓我們這些觀眾少聽了很多具有價值的信息內容。最厭煩陳一個勁地講自己的事，拜托，你是誰啊？幾斤幾兩重啊？有幾個人認識你這個“火柴棍上頂著個貢丸”（此比喻來自天涯某網民）的人啊，誰要聽你家的雞毛蒜皮小八卦！好在sammi心情好，說了不少，否則我們真要被郁悶壞了，但是長達近兩小時的節目的精華就太少了，最大的價值就是sammi第一次承認了和安仔的關系，總算是給了安仔一個名分啊！不過……這個名分已經成為了過去時了。