2008-02-22 12:19:58蜜桃

Am I being greatness or be foolish?

When she heard that I sent all my salary to the family,

She shows an ”unbelievable” face and say:
”You are such kind a greatness woman I ever seen......”
She said if she were me, she will refuse to donate all money out and taught the man to earn for family as his responsibility.

Am I being greatness or be stupid?

There is no answer for this question, and who could make a better decision?

My problem is simple but hard to solve right now.

We ever had happy days but shorts of investment sensibility. The things goes worse because we made wrong decision together, I couldn’t blame him for this, since his career plan I had agreed and supported two years ago.
So who could I blame to? How could I leave him for such big economic pressure?
If I didn’t take all these payment, could we still be a family now?

When the article says man is just a money making machine and how poor a woman do every house keeping and children rising work..........
How could I response with this?
My man didn’t bring any money back and I still need to do both job and house keeping work............

Am I being greatness or be foolish?

If she were in my position, will she do better decision?
Will she leave the family goes broken just for keeping her salary?
Will she leave support for her husband because she wants to be a ”happy, independent” woman?
Will she give up children’s school learning because that’s ”Daddy’s job”?

I don’t know if I am a greatness woman or a dunce......

I just know I want to be survived under this tragedy life,
I just want to get children well growing,
I just hope everybody could be happy,
I just need more income to solve my problem now,
I just wish all my family could be the same as before,

Although everything is different now and ever…...


蜜桃 2008-02-26 13:50:56

太棒了~~久米的話一次鼓勵這麼多人呢!!

真開心!!

LINDA

Judy 2008-02-26 11:42:21

Dear Linda,

借個版面...


Dear 久米:

妳的留言,深植我心,受益了...

一席話撥開心裡的糾結,謝謝妳.....

JOMIN 2008-02-25 14:05:38

我想說,我們可以不要去緬懷過去
因為過去的就是過去了,
不論是好與壞都不會再回來
我們也可以不要一直去看見自己現在的辛苦
因為會越看越辛苦
而且不會因為我們的看到就不再辛苦
但我們可以去看我們現在擁有的
珍惜、接受與享受
那麼心裡或許可以多一些微笑
親愛的LINDA
一起加油!