2010-05-14 21:10:22Sky

Treasure

     My grandmother Who was from china came to my house Recently. She came here because  a bad thing is happening at her home in china so my mother thought she should live with us so we could take care of her.  I have not seen my grandmother for a long time since she left Taiwan and she has changed a lot.  She looks much weaker and unhappy. I know she has been facing a big problem in her life lately.  I feel sad and sorry because I can not be there with her when she was suffering that difficulty. My grandmother lost a lot of weight and her health is getting worse .  I am  worried about her and always pray for her. I hope she can think positively and forget the bad experience that she has had. My grandmother is 84 years old, she cannot walk well and she is sick now. I was so shocked when I first met her yesterday because she looks much older than before. 

    Today, when I was massaging her body, I told her that “ grandmother just feel free to live here because we are allhere to be with you and love you. Now you just try to be happy because only when you feel happy, you will be healthy'. We love you forever". I saw my grandmother was crying and I cried, too. She does not like to walk, eat and she spends a lot of time to laying down on the bed.  She makes me recall my other grandmother who was my father’s mom.  My other grandmother brought  me up and she had passed away six years ago. She was the person who I miss the most in the world.  I remember when I was child, this grandmother spent her whole daytime to take cake of us. At that time my mother had to work so she could not take care of us in daytime. Therefore, we have  a good relationship with our grandmother. When I was a university student, my grandmother was sick with cencer. I could not spend more time with her because my school is far from my home. The most t regretful thing in my life was that I didn't get to see her even for the last time. Therefore, I definitely will do my best to treasure my grandmother from china because I do not want to regret this time. I will do my best to make her feel happy and comfortable in the latter part of her life.