1.Accepting your partner as he/she is.
(like/love them in spite of their faults)

2.Having a good relationship with your in-laws.
(your husband’s/wife’s family)

3.Having a home of your own.(Not necessarily owning it.)

4.Being from a similar class and culture.

5.Both partners being able and willing to cook.

6.Being able to make each other laugh.

7.Being able to respect each other’s needs.
(Understand that your wife/husband has needs.)

8.Having similar interests.

9.Being faithful to each other.
(Not to date anyone else when you are married)

10.Being honest.

11.Both partners being of similar intelligence.

12.Being able to communicate with each other.
(Be able to tald about problems and worries)

13.Having similar views,e.g. about politics and religion.

14.Being willing to work at the marriage.

15.Being handy about the house.
(to be good at fixing things when they break)

16.Having good physical relationship.
(enjoy having sex with each other)

17.Having good health.

18.Having children.


All things above are more important than any other things in your marriage.which is the most important?please rank your own order.