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那么你~~~~

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i thought i will collapse when my ex-bf said we shouldn`t be together anymore,but actually,there isn`t any sadness in my heart.maybe i don`t love him,but i was love him so much before,everything can change in some times!change your life to accommodate these changings like me!keep going!

Dear Racheal

Dont worry, tomorrow will take care itself:)

Thank you for your feedback again.

Sorry,刚刚出差回来，公司那边太多事情了，昨晚3点多AM才飞回来

I hope you can understand my language.

“For this case,overcoming everything is in order to get married which is the result Lee expected.BF’s parents is one the obstacles stands on their way, to my understandings, the power of love can make them go through it. Don`t you think so?Please suppose you in that situation. “

Well, I try to get your picture.

结婚不是love的结束。

不是说结婚了，所有问题就会解决。If so, 为什么会有离婚呢？

To me,结婚是需要冲动。

需要考虑的问题有好多, such as salary, working location, partner’s age and financial situation.油，米~~~~~~`。都会影响到生活，因为我们生活在现实的社会里面。

虽然困难好多，但当我找到一个可以沟通和愿意和我共同去面对问题的人的时候。我又怎么会放弃呢？我不知道自己是否可以付起责任，但我愿意用我一生的时间去尝试。

How about lee’ BF?

不是我不愿意share我的故事，而是太多personal reasons & 没时间静静地整理自己的脑袋，soooooooooooo busy~~~~~~~~~~~

Anyway, I think I 已经尽力去回答和share 我的观点。

I hope you can forgive me.

PS: 关于你们（friends or readers）的文章，我会尽快完成。

“有拖没欠啦”，先等等吧，give me some time to have a break and handle all my businesses, p. I will as soon as I can.

Thank you!!!

&quotI think that it is say always easier than do. How to overcome everything? &quot

Lai ming, sorry I cannot be with you,to me,to some extend,overcome everything means what you can try best to get or how hard you try. For this case,overcoming everything is in order to get married which is the result Lee expected.BF’s parents is one the obstacles stands on their way, to my understandings, the power of love can make them go through it. Don`t you think so?Please suppose you in that situation.

Why girls fall in love?the reason is very simple, a small romantic plaything can make them fall in love when they are young, but huge things are gonna to be considered when they are getting older, such as salary, working location, partner’s age and financial situation. They prefer to a stable relationship but not for a romantic story/history.

Anyway, Lai ming, you are young but you got married, I think you are good sample to Lee, young man is willing to marry, right?

Lee’e-mail

Did you have similar experience of mine?and I am trying to find a way to our problem.soemone say &quotthe point is my boyfriend`s attitude, how can I share something he knows but didnot put on the table? I am pretending to be someone who knows nothing and waiting for his response and decision, Or should I just start this topic directly?we are still young,maybe young for him but not me, you know, definition of young to different gender is different. So I want marriage same as every girl who in my age, I want to settle down but he is still very young, young enough to chaise after his dreams or girls.


Well, let’s me step by step to handle your questions and elastic girl’ opinion.

“Did you have similar experience of mine?”

Sorry, I don’t have this problem. But, I got your picture that it was very difficult to resolve.

There are so many ways to resolve your problems. First, p slow down, slow down~~~~

According to elastic girl’ opinion, She said “ you can overcome everything,even your parents.” I think that it is say always easier than do. How to overcome everything?

You should try to talk with your BF, although he don’t want to face those problems. If he don’t want to talk with you, I will doubt that why you can follow in love with him. Fool? God know?!


“we are still young,maybe young for him but not me~~~~~~~~~~ So I want marriage same as every girl who in my age, I want to settle down but he is still very young,”

Firstly, come back to the question: why you can follow in love with him?

Do you know he is so young?

If so, you should understand your BF who likes a child. You know how to get marriage with him.

However, you should try to use your BF’angle to view those problems.


According to elastic girl’ opinion, she said “But if he stands by his parents side, please dont turn back again, just go to the one who deserves your love.”

In my opinion: <美女的烦恼> “当然你也可以把责任推给对方，但正如一个只会问对方会给自己什么，但自己又不问自己可以给对方什么东西的人，做生意怎么会成功呢？In fact, love is not business.但你整天在埋怨对方又是否是love呢?”

我承认我有偏帮your BF, although I don’t know he who is a fucker or Mr. Right. Anyway, how to decision that it is up to you. Good luck.

At the end, elastic girl, thank you soooooooooooo much.

what is love in your opinion？
what is your bf`s opinion? if you guys love each other, you can overcome everything,even your parents.
I think you can talk with your bf,let him know what situation you are in now and listen to him if you are the one to him.
But if he stands by his parents side, please dont turn back again, just go to the one who deserves your love.