今早在上班途中，扭開了英文頻道收聽。不曉得主持人問了些什麽問題，只聽到聽衆 call in 發表而已。而有一位女聽衆發表了個人意見，大概内容是，when you are RICH is easier to love, but in opposite condition when you are POOR is hard to love someone. This is not a materialistic thinking, whereby gone thru by experiences. For example, for a couples who are married for years’, the wife wishes to buy a tie for husband as a present, but she has no extra money and only able to buy a RM 9.90 tie. What was the husband did is never wear the tie which the wife bought, then what is the purposed of buying? Of course wants to make the husband happy, am I right? What kind of quality you expected a RM9.90 tie’s? Thus, a married couple doesn’t behave like youngsters, no money or no else where to go and just hang at the park. If both parties having financial independent, do you think problems will be easily solved?

其實，我聼完了之後深表同感。無可否認，錢不是萬能，但沒有錢卻萬萬不能。 有位朋友曾經告訴我，若是問題可以用錢解決的話，那就不是問題了。我聼了之後以一味苦笑回應他。對呀，他說得沒有錯。但我們的問題就是我們口袋沒有錢啊！誰不知道有錢好辦事，有錢能使鬼推磨！

說到錢，讓我想起了較早前，朋友問了我一個問題，“我是個浪漫的人嗎” 我回答他說以前是，現在不是了。他窮追不捨的繼續追問下去。我回應他說，沒有錢的人是浪漫不起。浪漫是要付出代價的。更何況，天底下是沒有白吃的午餐的。 在沒有錢的時候，難道你覺得吃粥水也開心麽？我在這裡所指的有錢並不是大富大貴每天吃山珍海味， 而是口袋裏除了有足夠的錢應付開銷，還要有點閑錢供消遣。如果連自己的開銷都應付不了，那麽你還會覺得自己可以浪漫起來嗎？告訴你，那是不可能的。每次想到要怎麽填補開銷都要抓頭髮絞腦汁， 煩都煩死了。哪裏還會花心思做一個浪漫的人？

古人說：柴、米、油、鹽、醬、醋、茶，是每個家庭必備的東西缺一不可。如果，每天早上起來時，沒有煩惱這七樣東西的話，至少你是幸福的。