Recently I have thought a lot, mostly about how people like to compare life with love. I don’t talk about how my relationship is or how my life is going. If people are interested then I may tell, but usually I will just be quiet and live my own life. If they really want to know they can read my blog.

Fortunately I met my guy in the right place and the right time. If I had met him when I was younger we probably would not have noticed each other. He is a foreigner who has brown hair, blue eyes, a big nose, speaks English and doesn’t like Chinese food at all. But in my eyes he is just a man I love. I love his soul, love his heart and love that he knows me as well. I’m pretty proud that he has chosen and loves me. I love him not because he is a foreigner; I do not care how good his job is or how much money is in his account. Thank God our communication is not a problem. Body language is very important but it can’t work alone. I will not use it to get a man’s attention. I can’t talk to someone if he cannot understand what I say or know how I feel. I am talking about someone who is going to spend rest of my life with me, not someone who I am just dating or showing off : “Hey, look at me, my man is a foreigner and he makes good money!”

So please stop comparing your date or life with mine because we are not the same. Life is not easy and everyone has their own style. If we all can live well that’s because we earn it and we deserve it. Someday we will be proud about how we make our life complete; it’s not about how rich we are, it’s about how happy we are. I don’t care if you are envious or jealous. I have no room for those feelings in my life.