是的，我要追你。

那個柔得像水的女人，牽動著內心那根難以碰觸的弦。昨晚看了一本小說，被女主角那種義無反顧地又無私地奉獻愛情的態度，感動地無法入睡。心上的那線，一直被輕輕扯著、扯著。

如何讓自己像她一樣，去愛、去疼寵另一個人？人，愛自己的時候總是太多，或者是希望自己被愛、被寵。但從不懂自己有去愛、去寵別人的潛力。作為一個女人，年輕時，享受被人追的快樂；年紀大些，希望自己被自己的愛人疼愛；結婚後，希望自己的老公疼；老了，希望自己比老公早走，這樣可以一輩子享受被愛。

所有的一切，都是一種被動的形式接受。什麼時候我們可以學會去主動去愛人？真正無私、無我、無任何企圖地愛一個人。沒有任何理由，也不求任何回報，只希望對方可以擁有幸福。但，我在想，愛絕不是單方面的。如果只有單軌的愛戀，或許也不會有真正的幸福可言。

能否解讀為，愛與被愛同時進行，施與受都該同等被重視呢？那個男追女的時代已經過了，女生是否可以大膽與勇敢地去愛，去爭取屬於自己的幸福呢？

嗯嗯，什麼時候我可以大聲地說：「是的，我要追你。」？

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突然想唱這首歌給你…

MV: http://www.wretch.cc/blog/PittMeadows/15322752

Sade - By Your Side

歌詞:

By Your Side  / sade

You think I'd leave your Side, baby
You know me better than that
Think I'd leave you down when you're down on your knees
I wouldn't do that
I'll do you right when you want
And if only you could see into me
Oh, when you're cold
I'll be there, hold you tight to me
When you're on the outside, baby, and you can't get in
I will show you, you're so much better than you know
When you're lost
You're alone and you can't get back again
I'll find you, darling, and I'll bring you home
If you want to cry
I am here to dry your eyes
And in no time, you'll be fine
You think I'd leave your Side, baby
You know me better than that
You think I'd leave you down when you're down on your knees
I wouldn't do that
I'll do you right when you want
And if only you could see into me
Oh, when you're cold
I'll be there, hold you tight to me
Oh, when you're low
I'll be there
By your Side, baby
Oh, when you're cold
I'll be there, hold you tight to me
Oh, when you're low
I'll be there
By your Side, baby