What is 幸福? happy? stable? doesnt need to work? travel around the world for 3 months? or being with your lover, have family and kids.

Family, love, career, friends... I used to prioritize that when I was really very young. At that time, my priority is Love, career/study, family and then friends. After some time, my priority became Friends, career/study, family and then love. And then it became family, career/study, friends and then love.

Now, I dont want to prioritze them anymore. I just want all of them to have a very good balance. I guess... I can do it. Today I just planned my annual leave and other plans in the first half year of 2006. It was quite good. I really feel very glad that u r here to support me. Um.. actually, this is one of the reasons why I think that you are so great. To me, you have a very good balance of your life. You enjoy your life. You spent time with your friends, family, your ’son’, go shopping (online and also real shopping), eat eat eat and your work. People always think that you are a big kid, I do think that you are very mature. You know how to run your life well and also make people around you trust you. (Frankly speaking, i feel very comfortable when being with u coz I know u r able to take care of me ma) I do admit that I am "lucky" somehow sometimes. Today, I looked at your eyes. I found that you dont feel very safety or confirmed, or whatsoever. I know I am young in your mind but I have think before I acted. I wish I can make you feel more safety and worth spending life with one day.

No matter how challenging it might be, I will just take all of them.