Life should contain everything not only smooth things but also include difficult things for ya to face!!

My family has been going through a very hard situation that we have to pay money back to Microsoft for which the copying stuff we did for sympathy to a student!!
And I know, as an oldest son who should always carry the most heaviest load for the family can be either responsilble or not. Since I have chosen the hard way which would be the first way, how come instead of puting my best afford on it, I will choose kinda help the family but it just seems ain’t ture to me!! Maybe is that I’ve been thinking too much,my sister has been tried to be persuade to get a part time job with me as well, will I be too fake to do this, what do I do this for?