Some people tend to talk very directly or even abruptly

because they think it's easier to express what they wanna say

And most of them insist this is the best way to talk to their friends

and they always emphasize "come on" just tell me wut you wanna say and

tell me the truth" It's no harm to me at all..

On the contrary, I am always trying to avoid this way of talk

I think mutual respect and the art of talk are pretty important for

everyone...trying not to make any of mistakes of these

One of my buddies talking directly and abruptly from time to time,has

been a bit alienated from me since he overheard some harsh words about

him from me .He told me" hey, I just overheard you kinda speaking ill

of me , and I replied to him "Haha..you got me" but Don't you keep

telling me it's definitely ok that people talk to you very directly or

even abruptly?Coz you just want the truth...

since then...he seldom rang me

though we 2 are kinda buddies then

Um..Mutual respect and the art of talk are the essentials as we 're

dealing with people which will not change for good and has been

recognized in ages ,though some do insist they like to talk very

directly and keep emphasizing" why do we have to talk very indirectly?

And they think to discourage people is kinda fun in talking to buddies

making fool of them is fun

For me...it's kinda nonsense

One of my buddies is a strong example, he does care about my "truth"

about wut I think of his words to me

He always says..making fool of friends or discourging friends is nothing

why do we have to talk so politly?

This time....our friendship has been a bit affected

I don't care that much though

coz....I know...it must happen