2002-01-17 11:49:33Bombshell
Pain and Pleasure
What a surprise, my newspage still exists.
Recently, except of being kept busy by friends in town, i've been crazily and endlessly watching lots of "Sex and the City" which is my #1 favorite show, followed by Ally Mcbill and Friends.
Why would Carrie and Mr.Big end up being friends regardless of how much love and affection they used to have for each other? This is what i discovered, instead of analyzing her in a general pattern, I see how miserable and sorry she was when she was going out with Big. She's deeply emotionally attached to him and blindly pursued a perfect love relationship that could only happen in a fairy tale. Of course every woman wants their lover to love them the way they want, but sometimes when this manipulative machenism wouldn't work, obssessive ones assume that their men are emotionally unavailable or incapable of loving someone.
However, the fine line between pain and pleasure leaves Carrie in a roller coaster emotion. She fails to control her emotion and let it be manipulated by Mr. Big regardless of meaning it or not. I believe Mr. Big is no complicated human creature as though most of the men in the world are. While the game Carrie plays doesn't allow it go easily, she becomes obssessed and frustrated when the game doesn't go the way she'd planned and expected. The perfect man in the world is always a custom made and specially designed by order, it has to meet the specifications that tailor to different needs, rather than one size fits all.
What happens between pain and pleasure? At dinner table with illuminated candle sets and classic silverware, you and your loved one are having a romantic re-encounter, this is the most pleasure that every woman would like to have for the moment being, next moment a phone cuts in and he has to leave the dinner table to answer the phone, you get pissed and freaked out, because you didn't expect that stupid someone whoever that was, should never have disturbed your only, it makes you feel like you're less important than that damn phone call. Big pain strikes.
Women sweat about little things, some things that don't even exist. You don't have to live up with your men if you don't think you're capable of handling your emotion well. Think of yourself as a unique person that worths of a truckload of men to line up with, your life would be a lot better off.
Recently, except of being kept busy by friends in town, i've been crazily and endlessly watching lots of "Sex and the City" which is my #1 favorite show, followed by Ally Mcbill and Friends.
Why would Carrie and Mr.Big end up being friends regardless of how much love and affection they used to have for each other? This is what i discovered, instead of analyzing her in a general pattern, I see how miserable and sorry she was when she was going out with Big. She's deeply emotionally attached to him and blindly pursued a perfect love relationship that could only happen in a fairy tale. Of course every woman wants their lover to love them the way they want, but sometimes when this manipulative machenism wouldn't work, obssessive ones assume that their men are emotionally unavailable or incapable of loving someone.
However, the fine line between pain and pleasure leaves Carrie in a roller coaster emotion. She fails to control her emotion and let it be manipulated by Mr. Big regardless of meaning it or not. I believe Mr. Big is no complicated human creature as though most of the men in the world are. While the game Carrie plays doesn't allow it go easily, she becomes obssessed and frustrated when the game doesn't go the way she'd planned and expected. The perfect man in the world is always a custom made and specially designed by order, it has to meet the specifications that tailor to different needs, rather than one size fits all.
What happens between pain and pleasure? At dinner table with illuminated candle sets and classic silverware, you and your loved one are having a romantic re-encounter, this is the most pleasure that every woman would like to have for the moment being, next moment a phone cuts in and he has to leave the dinner table to answer the phone, you get pissed and freaked out, because you didn't expect that stupid someone whoever that was, should never have disturbed your only, it makes you feel like you're less important than that damn phone call. Big pain strikes.
Women sweat about little things, some things that don't even exist. You don't have to live up with your men if you don't think you're capable of handling your emotion well. Think of yourself as a unique person that worths of a truckload of men to line up with, your life would be a lot better off.