I thought after all these years I've evolved and become totally immune to the butterfly effect--meaning, having butterflies in the stomach while encountering w/the ex. Apparently, I'm one big defect from the testing lab.

Women are often prone to seek hidden messages or codes in men's world, if they are in a voice mail, an email, or a non-committal message. Women get together to form a forum to discuss, analyze, and hopefully to decipher the codes where men left behind.

Though the truth is, often time there is no hidden message AT ALL. Men and Women are just genetically different to begin with. Men don't hv to mean what they say, b/c what they mean to say is often meant for the ultimate benefit of their penis. Women don't say what they mean, b/c what they say are often encrypted with hidden codes and secretly hope men to break.

I can't help but wonder, after a decade of trying to figure out puzzles and codes in men's world, do Women ever get tired and frustrated of it and just decide to start thinking and acting like a man? or they become adapted to it restlessly and continue sitting around spinning bottles to designated answers and solutions?

I just gave up and started thinking like a man, in men's world. That makes life so much easier and respectable!