2005-03-12 07:27:51Bombshell
just chit chat I
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tnsl99: u there?
Alice: yo
tnsl99: hey
tnsl99: i'm home..it's so hot today
tnsl99: did u meet dave last nite?
Alice: geeez
Alice: too hot
Alice: burning
Alice: yes i followed ur instruction and came to see him
Alice: j/k
Alice: no
tnsl99: yeah..had to come home early..
Alice: yes
tnsl99: got a slight headache now
Alice: i did see him
tnsl99: oh u did?
tnsl99: hahaha
tnsl99: that's good
Alice: i was planning to, but then he called and offered to come cook for me
tnsl99: wow
tnsl99: nice
Alice: i told him it's better i go to his place
Alice: so i did, and brought him cheesecake
tnsl99: and u went?
tnsl99: cool..
Alice: and we made coffee
tnsl99: so great date again?
Alice: sat around and chatted
Alice: yes
tnsl99: so u two are officially a couple now?
Alice: um...
Alice: not sure
tnsl99: well...
tnsl99: things are going great
Alice: well
tnsl99: so don't need any official stamp of approval
tnsl99: hahha
Alice: i dunt want to be the1st one to tell pple we r bf/gf
Alice: he has to
tnsl99: of coz
Alice: yeah, sorta like that
Alice: he did ask me what i was gonna tell u today
tnsl99: took u less than 1 week
Alice: hahaha
tnsl99: fast
tnsl99: hahaha
tnsl99: robert always asks me about u two too
Alice: hahah
Alice: hahah
tnsl99: he wants to know everything..he says this is too funny
Alice: how funny
tnsl99: like watching soap opera
Alice: i think so too
Alice: hahahah
Alice: no
Alice: not ME
Alice: ur is soap
Alice: haha
tnsl99: no..u have more drama
Alice: mine is bubble
Alice: i do?
tnsl99: hahaha
Alice: how so?
Alice: at work, yeah
tnsl99: anyway
tnsl99: that's good...for both of us
Alice: wait
Alice: u hvn't told me
Alice: what u did last nite
tnsl99: told u what?
tnsl99: oh
Alice: detail detail
tnsl99: went to a cafe..sat outside
tnsl99: just talked..held hands..blah blah
Alice: where?
tnsl99: starbucks
Alice: OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Alice: HANDS~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Alice: BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG DEAL!
Alice: to you
Alice: hahaha
tnsl99: so yeah..go tell dave
tnsl99: tell him not to be so shocked anymore
Alice:
Alice: he's becoming shock proof
tnsl99: but no kissing yet..just a goodbye kiss..no passionate kissing..ahhaha
Alice: so am i
Alice: hahah
Alice: ok ok
Alice: good enuf
tnsl99: shockproof to my stories?
Alice: every couple has different phase
Alice: yes, to u
Alice: haha
tnsl99: yeah..we are turtles compared to u guys..like wild hares
tnsl99: hahaha
Alice: HAHAHA
Alice: BUT THEN
tnsl99: u guys are the european way
tnsl99: we go the asian way
Alice: TURTLES CATCH UP FAST~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
tnsl99: robert laughed too...he says what dave is doing is totally european
Alice: REALLY?
Alice: HOW SO?
tnsl99: he said he's more culturally sensitive..ahhaha
Alice: hahah
tnsl99: fast..if u like each other in europe..then can do all kinds of stuff right away...
tnsl99: same day of meeting
tnsl99: no big deal
Alice: wow
Alice: i know
tnsl99: yeah..i'm happy for u.happy for myself
Alice: dave said in Scottland pple don't do that
tnsl99: great things turned out this way
Alice: he's become more accustomed to american culture later on
Alice:
tnsl99: hmm..it's ok..whatever way works for u guys
Alice: yeah....
Alice: i think, just take it easy and be honest with ur heart
tnsl99: i told my mom abt his kid too
tnsl99: my mom was ok with it
Alice: and be positively simple!
Alice: oh really?
tnsl99: so doesn't seem to be any problems for us now..so far...
tnsl99: i feel soo relaxed around him
tnsl99: holding hands wasn't even a big deal anymore..it's like we've been doing it forever
tnsl99: but i'm reallyhappy now
tnsl99: this is kind of silly..he said he fell in love with me when i cleaned out the teacups for him..hahahah..
Alice: heeheee
Alice: hahahaha
Alice: omg
tnsl99: oh well..time to tell johan
Alice: sounds pretty french
tnsl99: remember that 2 mth agreement?
Alice: heehee
Alice: yes
Alice: tell him
tnsl99: doesn't matter what his decision anymore
Alice: dunt think he's thinking anything seriously for u two anyway
Alice: good
Alice: u are happy w/ robert, that's what that matters!!!
tnsl99: i dunthink so either..but at least i should tell him not to bother with it anymore..let him breathe easier..hahaha
tnsl99: my mom keeps calling him roberto in chinese..carrot head
tnsl99: how late did u stay last night at dave's?
Alice: right!
Alice: hahaha
Alice: hahahahaha
Alice: hhaha
Alice: tooo funny
Alice: 11pm
tnsl99: yeah..i told robert too
tnsl99: he just laughed..he said its ok
tnsl99: he came over for dinner..then he watched the 9 oclock korean drama show with me
tnsl99: then left for borders at 10
tnsl99: then went to starbucks..and stayed till 1.30
Alice: WOW
tnsl99: he smokes too much though
Alice: 1;30AM
Alice: oh no
Alice: bummer!
Alice: buuuuuuummer!
Alice: aiya
tnsl99: it's ok..i;m used to pple smoking..johan smokes too
Alice: does Johan smoke?
tnsl99: yeah
Alice: ok ok
tnsl99: no big deal
Alice: i dunt like bf smoking
Alice: good that dave doesn't hv those bad habbit!
tnsl99: i'm used to it
Alice: plus he has a kid around
Alice: haha
tnsl99: so u seeing him again tonight
tnsl99: ?
tnsl99: of coz
tnsl99: it's frida
tnsl99: y
tnsl99: what r u guys doing tonite?
Alice: ate cake
Alice: drank wine
Alice: coffee
Alice: talked
tnsl99: i feel relieved now that my parents are cool with robert..they;ve met him so many times..so i dun have to explain anything anymore
Alice: good
Alice: u are invited to
Alice: 3/26
Alice: dinner at my place
Alice: two sat later
tnsl99: housewarming?
Alice: no quite
tnsl99: then?
Alice: just a small dinner w/mom's cooking
Alice: she's leaving 27th
tnsl99: oh..cool
Alice: so i want to invite some close friends
tnsl99: yes i'll come
Alice: bring robert
Alice:
tnsl99: yeah
Alice: u, erin, david crume, angela and jennifer
Alice: and dave
tnsl99: ok
tnsl99: good
tnsl99: if it was johan..i probably can't go
Alice: dave asked me if i'd tell my mom about him having a kid
tnsl99: what a big difference
Alice: what?
tnsl99: u better tell her as soon as possible
Alice: what do u mean u can't go if were johan?
tnsl99: the longer the way the harder it is to tell
tnsl99: johan's not the type to hang out with my friends
Alice: well...not that my mom is gonna flip
Alice: and until things get more serious
Alice: oh oh?
Alice: too introvert?
Alice: or?
tnsl99: u and dave are serious already..when pple reach a certain age..they know what they want..so get serious much faster
tnsl99: he;ll probably be playing poker to go anywhere with me
tnsl99: u should push dave to hurry up with the divorce paperwork
tnsl99: won;t do anybody any good by delaying
Alice: no
Alice: i won't push him
Alice: he is the type of person can't be pusehd
Alice: he does things for you internally
tnsl99: even if u guys don't get serious..he should know it's good for himself to set things straight
Alice: with external commend he'll go the other way
tnsl99: hahah..like me
Alice: yeah he's filing it
tnsl99: rebellious
Alice: in two months
tnsl99: oh
tnsl99: good
Alice: and it's nothingi want to get involved