2007-02-26 07:32:20蘋果綠 or Victoria
Your Response to Your Child’s Behavior
Your Response to Your Child’s Behavior
The parents’ own temperament, usual mood, and daily pressures will also influence how they interpret the child’s behavior. Easygoing parents may accept a wider range of behavior as normal and be slower to label something a problem, while parents who are by nature more stern move more quickly to discipline their children. Depressed parents, or parents having marital or financial difficulties, are less likely to tolerate much latitude in their offspring’s behavior. Parents usually differ from one another in their own backgrounds and personal preferences, resulting in differing parenting styles that will influence a child’s behavior and development.
When children’s behavior is complex and challenging, some parents find reasons not to respond. For instance, parents often rationalize ("It’s not my fault"), despair ("Why me?"), wish it would go away ("Kids outgrow these problems anyway"), deny ("There’s really no problem"), hesitate to take action ("It may hurt his feelings"), avoid ("I didn’t want to face his anger") or fear rejection ("He won’t love me").
If you are worried about your child’s behavior or development, or if you are uncertain as to how one affects the other, consult your pediatrician as early as possible, even if just to be reassured that your child’s behavior and development are within a normal range.
The parents’ own temperament, usual mood, and daily pressures will also influence how they interpret the child’s behavior. Easygoing parents may accept a wider range of behavior as normal and be slower to label something a problem, while parents who are by nature more stern move more quickly to discipline their children. Depressed parents, or parents having marital or financial difficulties, are less likely to tolerate much latitude in their offspring’s behavior. Parents usually differ from one another in their own backgrounds and personal preferences, resulting in differing parenting styles that will influence a child’s behavior and development.
When children’s behavior is complex and challenging, some parents find reasons not to respond. For instance, parents often rationalize ("It’s not my fault"), despair ("Why me?"), wish it would go away ("Kids outgrow these problems anyway"), deny ("There’s really no problem"), hesitate to take action ("It may hurt his feelings"), avoid ("I didn’t want to face his anger") or fear rejection ("He won’t love me").
If you are worried about your child’s behavior or development, or if you are uncertain as to how one affects the other, consult your pediatrician as early as possible, even if just to be reassured that your child’s behavior and development are within a normal range.
Hey! you must be too consider your class, I know you are a good future teacher but you should try to find a part-time job at pre-school. That`s the way how you get into the America socity. But anyway I read your artical, it is nice to deal with kids. Anyway, do your best I will be your side if you need me whenever. Your love, DJ.