2004-12-09 16:57:46Angel
9/12/04 遇上了生平第一個令我自卑的男人 III
這回交代一下他的情史吧,這些都是我跟他一起之前已知道的.
他拍過一次拖,那一次拍了4年,而且4年也是異地戀.
他中六時因聯校活動而認識她,他是某某主席,她就是秘書.
大家維持了整整一年的工作伙伴關係.
中六後他到美國上大學,他們開始在icq交談,跟著便一起了.他說:我和她交往了一年後,我暑假回香港才第一次拖她的手,感覺怪怪的.
4年的遠洋交往,可不是小兒科喔
可是最終第4年也要向現實低頭.
"my terminology of a serious relationship is that things have to make sense and realistic,only if a relationship makes sense then u'll be able to stay with that person"
"anyway i think being realistic is good,at least there is no sadness at all when we broke up.Not really for instance....relationship is not that high on my priority list at least for now.i mean I dun really care"
So i ask"when will you care?"
"mmm when I'm 35..when it's time for a family~i'm like self sufficient... like dun really need any "emotional" support those kinda stuffs.for instance I know my ex for a yr and observed for a yr before going for her and she turns out to be just as what I expected.jus the fact that we are long D won't earn us any future so we decided to break up"
我問他那些expectation是指什麼..
"I mean I expect a girl with certain qualities to be a suitable gf for me and then we get along pretty well just as I expected, I mean pick somebody based on criterias not only base on feeling.i mean u can say it's like having a check list,checking the criteria when I choose my gf.
那晚在icq和他談了很多大家對感情的看法.
他對感情看得很現實.
這些都是見他之前談的
之所以我一直也認為他不會輕易喜歡我
他說就是說這套
但他見到我時做的那套又怎樣解釋呢???
待續....
他拍過一次拖,那一次拍了4年,而且4年也是異地戀.
他中六時因聯校活動而認識她,他是某某主席,她就是秘書.
大家維持了整整一年的工作伙伴關係.
中六後他到美國上大學,他們開始在icq交談,跟著便一起了.他說:我和她交往了一年後,我暑假回香港才第一次拖她的手,感覺怪怪的.
4年的遠洋交往,可不是小兒科喔
可是最終第4年也要向現實低頭.
"my terminology of a serious relationship is that things have to make sense and realistic,only if a relationship makes sense then u'll be able to stay with that person"
"anyway i think being realistic is good,at least there is no sadness at all when we broke up.Not really for instance....relationship is not that high on my priority list at least for now.i mean I dun really care"
So i ask"when will you care?"
"mmm when I'm 35..when it's time for a family~i'm like self sufficient... like dun really need any "emotional" support those kinda stuffs.for instance I know my ex for a yr and observed for a yr before going for her and she turns out to be just as what I expected.jus the fact that we are long D won't earn us any future so we decided to break up"
我問他那些expectation是指什麼..
"I mean I expect a girl with certain qualities to be a suitable gf for me and then we get along pretty well just as I expected, I mean pick somebody based on criterias not only base on feeling.i mean u can say it's like having a check list,checking the criteria when I choose my gf.
那晚在icq和他談了很多大家對感情的看法.
他對感情看得很現實.
這些都是見他之前談的
之所以我一直也認為他不會輕易喜歡我
他說就是說這套
但他見到我時做的那套又怎樣解釋呢???
待續....