a: "yah...yah....ok...ok...i will go to your place and chat...tonight...bye"

b: "yah...yah...we should go out sometimes...i will call you this weekend...ok...bye"

c: "yah...come to visit us...i can take you around...oh..no problem...sure...just come...we will have fun"

i am sure people say it..or hear it all the time...in the phone or normal coversation...at least i do...

but i really hate to hear it...cus so often...people who said it...did not really mean it...

in A case...after you wait until morning comes....NO CHAT..

in B case...you give up ur plan for the weekend activity...but u give it up for nothing...cus NO PHONE CALL...

in C case...after you really plan to visit...SORRY...cannot help you...

so why do people say those sentences all the time...i guess they just want to be polite...want to be friendly...

but in fact...its not polite...it indeed makes me feel pissed...it is not friendly...cus in fact...it makes me dislike them...

so...do i use those sentences...
yes i do...(dont blame me...this is my culture...i grow up from it...)

but now...i am trying my best not to use it...

when you really mean it...then say it...
if you dont really ment it...then for the sake of both ...dont say it...