Let's talk about history! Chinese culture we have God called "Under moon old man!" We believed there is such God to decide our lifetime partner so we talked about how taking 500 years ago with that smile so our partner showed up to be with us whether is to pay debt back to us! Then, there is traditional matchmaker called "Ma old lady" later we called is "Red lady" as I accidentally matched people as that was not my intention! Studied psychology I was able to design a matchmaking event for school activities! Then, I flew to LA to have my singles seminar with local singles! That times mostly for churches even it was school activities!

My personality plus 1995 time began with BBS as I was psychology board host! Human relationships were already complicated as that time already had cyber bullying as people could hide from their ID and posted hurting words! Even with such bad personal experiences, but I still met so many people! After I graduated, I moved to NYC! Perhaps bigger city had better opportunities! There I met my husband but even it was online first but online only a gateway as real relationships began with meeting in person! How many blind dates I went before him, I have to say that might be at least 10 or more! That is what I called in the beginning you have to first to screen off! Online profile is like your resume! In America, you don't see people put photos on their resume, but in Taiwan you will need to have a headshot! The worst dating app photos mostly from FB dating app! I only take 3 second to view! It is very basic! Photos! How you look will determine if you care for yourself!?

Our height is set as there is no way to gain extra inches once you grow up! Somehow our weight determined our health as that approved by medical research time after time! If a man does not know how to control their weight, they are not self controlled! I won't ask people if I can't do the same myself as I have already lost 20 lbs since October I started medical research about health with cancer research and other rare disease! I learned from eating 2 meals per day and chosen what you eat and diet and exercise! In Chinese wisdom, we have talked about "wind water" as how a person looks to determine their wealth! Looking on a person photo without even meeting them the first time! We heard about " don't judge a book based on its color" that does not always apply in culture and nature as why in the animal world that more appearances are male not female! Maybe because I had been in modeling so we had been selected and asked to show our best! Look is very important as now I look at it as a painting! If I don't like the painting, how can I continue?! Lots of men on FB app just took whatever they like! If I don't like what they look, there is no need to waste time! That is based on this 90 days love challenge experiment is on me! Before it is based on what my clients wanted! If I don't confident my own look, I won't be able to ask others to be the same! So FB app dating profile is like playing a lottery! Then, check the dating site once a week, the same way, photo then education! Education is very important to me! College and higher education make people become a thinker! I have master degree so it is tough for me to even consider just GED! College and graduated school also different! Master degree is learning research and subject matter expert! I heard most my singles members saying that does not matter! For me! That is everything! I need a thinker to be able to communicate with as that is just me! Age group mostly is preferences as I like older people with more life experiences!

To be continued...